I think "casual sex" is debilitating and disgusting. IF you don't sincerely love someone, sex is but animal lust. No better than a bull and a cow. Breccchhh!
Well, um...in my life I have slept with four thats including my fiance' now. I think to much is when you loose count of how many times, and when it gets to the point where you dont care who you are sleeping with. You should at least know the person a while to at least get a little close.
"I would never do crack...I would never do a drug named after a part of my own ass, Okay?"
Chris Rock had a joke before: "don't ask a woman how many people she had slept with, because whatever number it is you don't want to know. She could be like '2!!' and you'll be like '2??? Two!?! TWO!?! What? Two?! Wooo.... I guess that's how you were raised' "
"I'm for it so we can put Nuclear power plants up there, and then beam the power back to earth on a laser beam." ~ Whidden
I think that it is all in the past... but some stuff should be known. Like if your fiancé slept with George Bush before you, I think it should be brought up But it depends on the people. You could have an agreement saying who cares who we slept with before ‘us’ so lets never talk about it. Or some people want to know your past relationships just because of the scare of STD’s and such. I would like to know my partners previous ‘encounters’ just because I think it is good info to have but if she chooses not to say I will respect her.
It seems most people say they wish they had waited longer. I've not heard anyone say they wish they had had sex at an earlier age. So I would say the consensus is not to give in until later in life. (meaning over the age of 20)