Sayzak: im sorry but i didnt really like ur advice too much and ur 3 stages of love thing... i mean you dont know if they know each other good or not. no offense. i mean i knew josh better than anything in the world and i was only 14.. so why shouldnt she be able to know her boyfriend in the same way
Hey, am new to this convo, but heres my opinion:
I dont really think you're ever too young to love someone. I used to think like that... and have checklists, and stages of love (it used to be luv, then lurve... then Love) but i think... whatever u feel, u feel. if ur in love... its true, and annoying, but i think... u just know.
Then again, i've thought to myself about this guy, am i in love? i've kind of thought before i am, but theres this little regret part of me, and with that bit there i aint so sure. also, we're not going out, like you too are, we did go out... but it didnt work out. i realise now i was kinda inexperienced and real shy, and unfortunately my first relationship was with the luv of my life... but anyway.
I think theres too much speculation bout it, i've been crazy about people, and so much 'in love..' but im not sure. its all confusing really... what r ur instincts telling u?
my instincts now? now they are telling me that this guy was my first love...every one has one...i think i am over him now...but it was fun while it lasted! THANKS!!!!
You!!! OFF MY PLANET!!
a wise monkey never monkies with another monkies monkey
Take it from someone who has been married for 47 years to the same man. When I was 21 I thought I was in love. By the time I was 31, I knew that what I loved at 21 was not what I loved at 31. But I did learn to accept my marriage and there were lots of good times. There were also times when I wanted to leave.
But we had a houseful of little kids and I couldn't do it. Later, there were a bunch of kids to put through school and I couldn't do it then either. Now that I could do it, I can't remember why I wanted to. My life probably would have been better if I had waited and not married at 21. On the other hand I wouldn't have three really great kids and I wouldn't have missed out on them for anything. My advice to anyone is to wait until you're at least 25. It's no guarantee that your life will be wonderful, but at least you're better equipped to deal with the bad times and to recover from them without too many scars.
05-17-2004 01:14 PM
