It's not crazy at all, Schmiggens. Maybe you will feel enough comfort in your own skin someday to accept that it cannot possibly be true for all people to think these things about you.
At least, from what I can tell from INReview, your communication skills seem better than most people's.
schmiggens said this in post #64 : I never finish sentences, I end them with "and ..... you know" or "so .............." or things like that. It's a really odd thing to do, I don't know why ............
That's not so bad. But worked with this chick who would do something similar. She would end her sentences with a combo of and, you know, so, it's like in one word sandwich and a side of nervous laughter. And it was every damn sentence, with none of it was funny... ever.
schmiggens said this in post #64 : I have really bad comminication skills, I am horrible at meeting people, making new friends, etc. I never know what to say to anyone, I always end up looking either stupid or snobby. Once you get me in the group though, I open up pretty quick and can maintain a friendship on a basic level, but I have trust issues, especially with girls, so I don't have "best friends", i just have mates.
I cannot stand mess. Dirt I can handle, but not mess. The floor can be dirty, but it can't be covered in things, mess, you know. I like un-cluttered surfaces. I hate ornaments and things like that, they just make more mess. I want to clean other people's places when they have stuff everywhere.
I always think everyone is judging me and everyone thinks I am not good enough. Like right now, you all are judging this post and thinking I am crazy and one day you are all going to bombard me with PM's telling me how stupid I am and that you never want me to post on INR again, or something.
Well, maybe not that crazy, but if I see someone looking at me, it's never a minor thing, it's always because of a big pimple/ my wig's on wrong/ I forgot to draw my eyebrows on properly/ etc. I never think anyone's looking at me because thye like my shirt or whatever, it always a bad thing and I have to find a mirror to check myself.
I never finish sentences, I end them with "and ..... you know" or "so .............." or things like that. It's a really odd thing to do, I don't know why ............
I have so many more ... I am loopy.
Who doesn't?
Don't you know by now this IR family is dysfunctional?
You are fine. Take time and worry about us,
Ir went down for three days and us realy dysfuntional persaons were emailing and calling each other because we are addicts. So what !!!!
Quit picking on yourself you are normal by our standards and who else counts?
D
aka deltacent aka deltater
Life may not be the party I had hoped for.......
But while I'm here I might just as well listen to the music and dance..
Delta said this in post #61 : Yeah M but first you go to get one and with Kangaro breathe it hard to imagine anything but another Kangaroo being impressed.
J'/K
D
Hey, atleast I have it made with the kangaroo.
M.
"Every positive integer is one of Ramanujan's personal friends."—J. E. Littlewood.
adityamahesh said this in post #74 : I am also pathologically suspicious. I check around every corner if a serial killer is after me. What about that one?
M.
p.s. You guys must be really tired to take my previous 'flaw' seriously.
It's heaps easier to talk and sound good when you can take ten minutes to order your thoughts and your words so that it all makes sense. Most of the stuff that actually comes out of my mouth makes no sense at all.
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Delta said this in post #68 : Who doesn't?
Don't you know by now this IR family is dysfunctional?
You are fine. Take time and worry about us,
Ir went down for three days and us realy dysfuntional persaons were emailing and calling each other because we are addicts. So what !!!!
Quit picking on yourself you are normal by our standards and who else counts?
D
You guys are great, you really make a person feel welcome. It's a real shame we don't have more members coming in, we've got such a great member base, we should be sharing it around.
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schmiggens said this in post #64 : I cannot stand mess. Dirt I can handle, but not mess. The floor can be dirty, but it can't be covered in things, mess, you know. I like un-cluttered surfaces. I hate ornaments and things like that, they just make more mess. I want to clean other people's places when they have stuff everywhere.
I just realised the other day that even my dirt isn't messy, My dirty dishes are all arranged next to the sink, the glasses and cups sorted and in lines, the plates stacked according to size with any bowls and saucepans and stuff stacked accrording to size on top of the plates, the cutlery's all organised in a cup, with the cutlery bit in the cup and the handle sticking out.
I never realised I was doing it before. I just do it unconciously.
06-23-2005 11:39 AM
