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REVENGE --Should we try to get back at the person or persons that double-clutched us? Or should we just lie down and cry like a meek little softie? What do you think?

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I take the fifth as the answer may serve to incriminate me.

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I take the fifth as the answer may serve to incriminate me.



Don't be bashful -we're all friends here. It won't go any further.


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It's an internationally accessible website that extends to the furthest reaches of the planet - it CAN'T go any further

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Trust me-I won't forward it to Mars.

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Bam! post #6  quote:

I'm torn between wanting to get even with someone who betrayed my trust or just to let it go. I get opposing answers from people that know the story. Haven't decided yet .

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Becker, you have to think about is revenger really worth the time and anger involved. Be smart and then decide your course. Remember the old adage "living well is the best revenge". I personally believe that we all will have to stand before God and be judged. So I think they will get theirs.

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Becker, you have to think about is revenger really worth the time and anger involved. Be smart and then decide your course. Remember the old adage "living well is the best revenge". I personally believe that we all will have to stand before God and be judged. So I think they will get theirs.


EASY FOR YOU TO SAY! I'm so Pi...d off I will get even by passively ignoring any and all things that are connecting.


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Yes, it easy to say when I am not the one who is mad. I just hope you think it through before you act. I don't want to see you do anything that will hurt you in the end.

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Yes, it easy to say when I am not the one who is mad. I just hope you think it through before you act. I don't want to see you do anything that will hurt you in the end.




Not to worry. I would never do anything to hurt my end!



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Oh Becker!

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Remember: "revenge is a dish best served cold." give it time and you'll either cool off and let it pass, or have a very opportune moment for payback when they least suspect it.

Personally, I let the piddley crap go. It's the spiteful, destructive, deliberate acts of harm that you won't get away with.


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Remember: "revenge is a dish best served cold." give it time and you'll either cool off and let it pass, or have a very opportune moment for payback when they least suspect it.

Personally, I let the piddley crap go. It's the spiteful, destructive, deliberate acts of harm that you won't get away with.


I have to agree with Sean on that.


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All right already post #14  quote:

I am convinced to just lie here and suffer in silence , using no manipulation or stealth operations to exact revenge upon the one that deserves it. But of course I won't be able to sleep tonite--drat! Becker-says Roger and out.......

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I know some people I would like to take some revenge from

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Becker, I can understand the desire for revenge... Through my personal experience, when an incredibly terrible person screwed me over, I thought about revenge, but I was more relieved to have him out of my life. So revenge seemed unimportant. But if you really want revenge....

Wait 5 years. Save your money. If you're still mad, do the following: Organize an all expense paid trip (financed from your savings over the years) for your target, to Singapore under the guise of a fabulous sweepstakes. Including hotel, airfare, spending cash & a brand new set of luggage. Inside the lining of the luggage, deposit massive amounts of cocaine and heroine. Call and place an anonymous tip to Singapore customs agents the day your target is supposed to fly back home. After the trial and sentencing, you should have a year or so before their execution to call and wish your condolences.


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Becker, I can understand the desire for revenge... Through my personal experience, when an incredibly terrible person screwed me over, I thought about revenge, but I was more relieved to have him out of my life. So revenge seemed unimportant. But if you really want revenge....

Wait 5 years. Save your money. If you're still mad, do the following: Organize an all expense paid trip (financed from your savings over the years) for your target, to Singapore under the guise of a fabulous sweepstakes. Including hotel, airfare, spending cash & a brand new set of luggage. Inside the lining of the luggage, deposit massive amounts of cocaine and heroine. Call and place an anonymous tip to Singapore customs agents the day your target is supposed to fly back home. After the trial and sentencing, you should have a year or so before their execution to call and wish your condolences.


Your idea's thesis has condiderable merit. However, after five years my revenge anger probably would have mutated to indifference. But, of course, that's your subtle and gentle way of saying....Fo-git it..Also-I wouldn't get near that type of drug. I was thinking more of ways to screw up a life by sneaky leaks to several parties involved with that person's important life facets. But I won't do anything. Just suffer in silence.


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PPPSssss. post #18  quote:

Little revenge tactics such as : Loss of job--repo of home--kicked out of college--loss of kids---total bankruptcy--reduced to street person--name changed to Czotsky. Little things like that.

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Sean-lol--
I'm only daydreaming. It's not in me to do anything spiteful to anyone. Have never done it. Will never do it. Just venting frustration on IR. It does the trick if I just think about it. Some really rotten back-stabbing to me in the past. AM NOW Falling for ads promoting scar removal cream. Running out of scar money. Have to sleep face down. And Sean if you continue to take me seriously , my judgement of your superior intellect will suffer. Chelktty knows who I'm talking about. Send anti-depression pills, prepaid.


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Re: Picturing post #21  quote:

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..And Sean if you continue to take me seriously , my judgement of your superior intellect will suffer..


"Hey man, I put my pants on one leg at a time too - only difference is afterwards I go out and make gold records!" -- Christopher Walken, SNL skit enacting Blue Oyster Cult's recording of "Don't Fear the Reaper"


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Re: Re: Picturing post #22  quote:

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"Hey man, I put my pants on one leg at a time too - only difference is afterwards I go out and make gold records!" -- Christopher Walken, SNL skit enacting Blue Oyster Cult's recording of "Don't Fear the Reaper"


Congrats--Sean!!!!!!


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After my "conversation " today with the one I so deeply love and who professes her love for me, I am so completely upset and disgusted with her , that I really feel the need for revenge. My initial action will be to compose a letter so bitter that it will cause her skin to curl up and peel right off of her body. I have already advised her kids not to contact me ever again because of their mother's ill treatment. I will not do anything illegal, because I don't want to be a jail playmate of the year for some incest descendant. Big problem: she lives one block away. I have to pass her house every day. Guess I'll have to train myself not to look. I will not do anything on a reality basis, but I desperately need your input about what I should do about this. I am very upset.

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Becker, maybe a letter is not such a bad idea. You do NOT have to send it, but the process of putting your feelings down on paper may help.

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yeah cuz if you send it she'll probably just write a letter of her own

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I have never in my life ever wriiten this type of letter to anyone. In fact I won't usually put anything in writing. And Dekka , she won't answer back after our talk today. I gave her every chance to impart her regrets. She didn't. I just e-mailed one of her girls to never contact me again because of her mother, and to tell her sisters the same thing. And I WILL send the letter. No matter what she is going thru there can be no excuse for her actions. This will be the first rotten thing I have ever said to her. I don't think I have ever been this upset. And Dekka I finished the rewrite on Poodle. I'll send it to you. Nothing like the one I sent you before. Thank you both for your interests. You are good people and I appreciate your characters.

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my dad sent many a letter to my mom during their divorce. After a while she started showing them to me. They were actually quite comical. I'm not sure if she wrote any back. If she did she didn't tell me about them.

Make sure you read over your letter about a million bajillion times before you send it. And wait like a week or two to make sure you don't say anything you wish you didn't say.


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Being that I am close to his situation he needs to take hold of himself and get on with living, just think she is dead, dead dead. Then go thru your grieving peroid like you would if she really died.

You have broken up and taken this woman back so many times its s tupid. Grow up. All of us have gone thru heartbreak and survived. You act like you are the only peron to have this happen.

Get a grip Man.

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Being that I am close to his situation he needs to take hold of himself and get on with living, just think she is dead, dead dead. Then go thru your grieving peroid like you would if she really died.

You have broken up and taken this woman back so many times its s tupid. Grow up. All of us have gone thru heartbreak and survived. You act like you are the only peron to have this happen.

Get a grip Man.

I am right this minute, gripping. I am picturing her dead dead
dead. I think I'll leave now and visit her grave. But I don't know where she's buried. Oh, well. I'll ask the Charmed ones to scribe for it. D


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Due to some of my intelligent friends and their wise counseling. I have reached a decision. I will not seek any revenge. I will not contact her or any of her children again--ever. I will not pen a nasty letter. I will not do anything. I will just try to remember the good things about our relationship and be happy about that. I don't want to do anything to hurt her, although I could. It may take me a long time to get over this, but I will try. This is very difficult for me because I wanted to marry her. Even with her 5 daughters. I don't feel good about meeting someone else right now, even tho' there have been several opportunities. I don't know what the future will bring, but I have to accept the present. Even tho' I know she loves me.

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