| Posted by: hazel_dragoneye | | I've been divorced for two years and am currently single with a five year old. Recently there has been this guy that I work with has been taking me out. He's good with my daughter and treats me well, but he wants to commit to marriage and I told him no.
He has been following me everywhere now and even picking my daughter up from kindergarten without my consent and bringing her over to my house. He's even calling me at the house while I'm eating.
What do I do? I don't really want this guy around me anymore. | | Reply To this Message
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| Posted by: adityamahesh | | My logical and cold-hearted mind says that tell him firmly that it is over and you don't think it can work. If it persists or intensifies, give him a preliminary warning. On the third strike, go to the cops.
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| Posted by: hazel_dragoneye | |
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adityamahesh said this in post #2 :
My logical and cold-hearted mind says that tell him firmly that it is over and you don't think it can work. If it persists or intensifies, give him a preliminary warning. On the third strike, go to the cops.
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I think I'm on the third strike right now, but I'm so afraid to call the cops. I don't know why, but I don't think the cops take stalking seriously. I'm afraid they'll laugh at me or hang up the phone.
But seriously, I think he's stalking me.
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| Posted by: becker | | What qualities did you see in him to go on dates and introduce him to your child
And how many dates did you have with him? | | Reply To this Message
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| Posted by: Flutterbywingz | |
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hazel_dragoneye said this in post #1 :
He has been following me everywhere now and even picking my daughter up from kindergarten without my consent and bringing her over to my house. |
I think you should first be raising hell with your daughter's school for allowing a strange man to leave the premises with someone else's daughter.
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| Posted by: fuscia | | Hazel, immediately go to the school and make sure that he can not take her from school. I would then go to the police or let him know that as a mom, you can not hang with what he has been doing. Use your mommy instincts. They will help you.  | | Reply To this Message
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| Posted by: hazel_dragoneye | | I did go to the school but the principal had told me that my daughter knew who he was and it seemed ok to her to let her go with him. I think I better tell the school not to let him pick her up immediately because he is showing her kitty pornography and chainsawed dogs or at least I think so because she had asked me one time when she came home from school why people skin cats for their fur.
I was shocked out of my mind. | | Reply To this Message
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| Posted by: lodgebo | | The picking up of your kid is bang out of order as is the stalking. Have you got any brothers or cousins that could have a word with this guy so he gets the message that you re just not intrested I am not saying they have to be violent or anything but he just might take a warning from guys more seriously.
If this guy works with and he is stalking you then you should also tell your boss or HR department so at least you wont get hassled at work. | | Reply To this Message
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| Posted by: Flutterbywingz | |
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hazel_dragoneye said this in post #7 :
I did go to the school but the principal had told me that my daughter knew who he was and it seemed ok to her to let her go with him. I think I better tell the school not to let him pick her up immediately because he is showing her kitty pornography and chainsawed dogs or at least I think so because she had asked me one time when she came home from school why people skin cats for their fur.
I was shocked out of my mind. |
If the man who is stalking you was able to pick your daughter up from school, then bring her back to your home, where were you when you discovered that your daughter had been picked up from school and brought home?
PETA is everywhere and so are animals rights activists. Could it be possible that your daughter overheard someone talking about how fur clothing is made, and if not, how does talking about skinning an animal for fur relate to a man showing a child pornography and chainsawed dogs?
If this is all true, then you must treat this like an emergency and put a stop to it immediately.
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| Posted by: hazel_dragoneye | |
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the_way_it_is said this in post #9 :
If the man who is stalking you was able to pick your daughter up from school, then bring her back to your home, where were you when you discovered that your daughter had been picked up from school and brought home?
He would call me on the cellphone because I would be in Sacramento on a call because I am a machinist and have to work extra hours to get the machines out in the chemical plants to work. He would get off work earlier than I did and pick up my child. When I started dating him, I was alright with that and then he started acting strange after I told him I didn't want to marry him.
PETA is everywhere
My friend told me to contact the SPCA but I do not know anything about PETA. I seriously think those are his animals he has skinned. I may be wrong (I hope I am)
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| Posted by: becker | | I would go for a face to face frank talk and tell him exactly how you feel and how you expect him to behave.
The conversation should be on tape...with you informing him that you are taping it.
Then go from there. | | Reply To this Message
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| Posted by: Delta | |
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hazel_dragoneye said this in post #1 :
I've been divorced for two years and am currently single with a five year old. Recently there has been this guy that I work with has been taking me out. He's good with my daughter and treats me well, but he wants to commit to marriage and I told him no.
He has been following me everywhere now and even picking my daughter up from kindergarten without my consent and bringing her over to my house. He's even calling me at the house while I'm eating.
What do I do? I don't really want this guy around me anymore. |
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Sorry Hazel you are making yourself and your child a victim.
What this so called admirer is doing is illegal; and he should have the authorities called in on his behavior.
Whats with you? AFRAID? Of
What? If you are contributing to his apparent illness then maybe this is all your own doing.
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Illogical determinations on your part. Child should come first
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| Posted by: Flutterbywingz | | Wow, hazel. So, how did everything turn out with your "stalker", and was the "stalker" who showed your daughter "kitty" porn and chainsawed dogs any relation to the person you saw on This show? | | Reply To this Message
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