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Posted by: Edward Teach

Today in a Fox News Exclusive, they interviewed an RN who cared for Terri around 1995. At that time she had Terry eating from a baby bottle, speaking saying things like Hi, Pain and a few other words. Should would sit in a chair in the lobby and smile at people as they came in.

She also checked Terri's vital signs often. She said Terri was doing very well then all of a sudden after a visit from her husband Michael she regressed. Upon taking her vitals and blood sugar she found her blood sugar to be ZERO. This could only mean one thing. She got a shot of insulin. So she looked and found needle marks on her and checked the waste basket and found a syringe hidden under other items in the basket.

She also said that Michael would say nasty things like When is that b**ch going to die.

She flat accused Michael of trying to kill Terri with insulin.

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Posted by: Edward Teach

Oh and the RN was fired, she also went to the police concerning Michaels actions.

Why is he getting away with this?

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Posted by: nikiTa

Was she fired for reporting this?

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Posted by: mystic

I heard about this..

Here is my problem with it...

She waited until NOW to say something? Where has this woman been all this time?

If she called the police...where's the police report?

I also heard that she said that he ripped stuff out of her medical records...as if! How does someone get their hands on someone else's medical records? This nurse left her records in the room? ALL of them? She never documented any of this...never TOLD any of this to anyone...Oh, until now.

Where does he get a syringe filled with insulin? Another police report never documented by either the police or the doctors? She obviously never reported it to the doctors...anyone wonder why? Maybe because it never happened?

I think this lady is trying to start something now because of this...obviously we know where she stands on this issue.

There is NO documentation of this ever happening...no records by her...no records by the police...no records from the doctors.

No records by anyone at all..but we are supposed to take her word for it without anything at all to back her words up?

Now...Im sorry...exactly who is the one with an agenda here?

Exactly!

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Posted by: Lawless

If this had happened, she would NOT have waited. This is all bs. I'm sorry... it's call, 'A little too late!" People will do ANYTHING to get famous, for 15 minutes, or to make a buck.

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Posted by: lickety_split

I think the husband looks a little suspect in this. I mean, I've been watching him on CNN and all the interviews and he comes across as a real stubborn arse! Even worse than Terri's parents. I think he wanted her to die early on for the money and when he lost it all to the lawyers, is seeking vengance on Terri's parents because he can. I don't like this guy at all!

I truly feel for Terri and I wish we knew what her wishes were from her own testimony and I wish if she is even 1% with us that she has hope for improvement and possibly regain some of her brain activity. If she is 'really brain-dead" it is sad for us to keep her alive knowing that she is alive only to die. She has no real life and no function left. Her tube is out now 4 days (I think) and THAT'S suffering.

I don't know if I feel as strong as some of the posters here, but I do believe she should have been dealt with earlier. It's been 15 years of suffering for her, or 15 years of hanging on by a thread.


I coudn't imagine anyone playing GOD, can you?

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Posted by: mystic

quote:
Heavens11 said this in post #6 :
When she contacted the police regarding this incident, the police supposedly asked her if she saw Michael stick the needle in her arm or under her breast. Since the answer was "no", the accusation was disregarded.

It should have been disregarded...how does one make a claim without witnessing something...a little hard dont you think? But dont you find it odd that it was on NO other report that she wrote? Nothing ever stated this. It doesnt take anything to write a report on what she thought...but she never did that.

She stated she found the syringe with remnants of insulin, along with the small insulin bottle, hidden in the trash in the room.

I know..but what did she do with it? Did she bring it to the police to have it tested for fingerprints? Did she tell anyone? Write a report about it? Another no I am assuming. How do we even know it ever really existed if she never documented it?

And we're supposed to take Michael's word on what Terri wanted to do with her life should she be in a vegetative state without anything at all to back her words up?

He isnt the only one who has stated that Terri said this...many of her friends also testified and even some of her other family members did as well...so yes I think we can take his words (along with theirs) over this woman. She didnt write ANYTHING down! Nothing at all!

Dont even tell me that NOW she decided to remember all this...no written documentation to back her up at all? Thats pretty unbelieveable considering what she said she saw...

A nurse that doesnt document anything? No..Im sorry, I dont buy it.


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Posted by: schmiggens

If you read the article I posted here it's actually two different nurses who have reported seeing these things, not just one.

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Posted by: mystic

Im sorry....but where have these women been all this time?

If they thought there was some abusive nature by him...they should have documented it and put it down in writing...to come out and now say that they witnessed this...I dont know...

Now we dont just have one nurse who didnt document anything, but now we have two.

If these women saw anything at all...they could have called a social worker...but they never did that.

It isnt like this happened in the 70's...this happened (so they say) in the 90's. People were well aware of the rights of patients then.

It doesnt take anything to make a call to the hospital social worker or doctors or staff....seems that if they did see something, they were negligent in their actions themselves.

I know..the one women said she went to the police....but she went there with an accusation but no proof to back it up. Who else did she tell? Obviously no one.

I mean who goes to the police without telling anyone at the hospital first? She didnt even tell the hospital administration? She just went to the cops with some flimsy story that couldnt be proved without telling another single person?

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Posted by: nikiTa

It is in writing in a sworn affidavit which the courts have had the opportunity to see.
The affidavit was given before witnesses with perjury being the result of any mistatement.

And she told her immediate supervisor.
The police came to her house for a statement. And she was let go from her job the next day.

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Posted by: mystic

quote:
sowhatsthetruth said this in post #11 :
It is in writing in a sworn affidavit which the courts have had the opportunity to see.
The affidavit was given before witnesses with perjury being the result of any mistatement.

And she told her immediate supervisor.
The police came to her house for a statement. And she was let go from her job the next day.


Well..okay thats the first I heard of that.

But I have a hard time believing that Schiavo had that much influence on a hospital. I just find that really odd. He isnt like rich or anything.

I dont know...if the courts saw it, they obviously didnt put much merit into it.

Thats the way I have to look at that.

I mean this woman saw nothing...she witnessed nothing. She couldnt prove anything.

Id like to know the real story as to why she was fired.

What is the hospital saying? Maybe we should wait to hear them before listening to her and taking that as the total truth.

Like I said..she never saw him do anything..well saw anything enough that had merit. As far as Im concerned anything she said was a flimsy argument that had no obvious standing to it whatsoever.

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Posted by: Edward Teach

By the way, in regard to the needle sticks, if you see track marks on a drug addict's arms does that mean that he is not a user because you didn't see him actually injecting himself?

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Posted by: nikiTa

I think we don't know the whole story in this entire situation.
As much as the publicity etc....there are alot of unanswered questions.

Like why won't he divorce her?
He had another relationship one year afterward...he's sleeping with other women...why does he hang onto marriage...just so that she will die in dignity? I can't imagine he won't divorce her for religious reasons!

A 3 million dollar offer and he turns it down...all so that she can die in dignity?
I'm not buying that side of the story either.

It's a clusterfluegen to say the least.

According to this nurse, Michael would go into her room, shut the door and request that no one come in. That's when her blood sugar dropped and she found the needle of insulin. She also said that he was extremely intimidating with the staff all the time. His comments about "When will this b die" etc were made before staff and visitors.

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Posted by: Edward Teach

Why did it take 7 years for him to come to the realization that Terri had verbalized a "living will"?

Answer: Another family, insurance and inheritance.

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Posted by: mystic

quote:
Ron Ackerman said this in post #15 :
Why did it take 7 years for him to come to the realization that Terri had verbalized a "living will"?

Answer: Another family, insurance and inheritance.


It was actually 5 years.

I believe he didnt have his new family until after that...but I dont know for sure.

No insurance money Im sure...what ever was there is most likely gone at this point in medical costs.

I dont know what the amount was of this inheritance she did recieve...was it before or after the heart attack? Is it even still there?

Anyhow...I thought you all might be interested in this.

Carla Iyers affidavit:

http://www.propertyrightsresearch.o...r_affidavit.htm

Those are just my thought Im expressing...I am certainly not in a position to argue about a he said/she said matter without seeing what is actually true and what isnt.

I cant just take one word over the other...Imean if the courts saw no merit...Im gonna go with their view.

Sorry...dont mean to offend anyone with that but thats just how I see it.
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Posted by: mystic

quote:
Ron Ackerman said this in post #13 :
By the way, in regard to the needle sticks, if you see track marks on a drug addict's arms does that mean that he is not a user because you didn't see him actually injecting himself?


Its a little bit different of a story.

If she didnt witness him actually doing it, it could have been anyone, if it even happened at all...we dont even know that for a fact.

Im sorry if you feel that he is guilty for that...but we dont even know if that story is true.

She could have easily taken it and had it checked for prints. Did the hospital document for this blood test she said happened?

Doesnt anyone find it odd that an everyday person could just walk into a hospital and have total influence on the whole system? I do.

Thats why I doubt her story somewhat.
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Posted by: mystic

quote:
Heavens11 said this in post #17 :



And as far as I'm concerned, anything Michael Schiavo said regarding the wishes of Terri Schiavo is flimsy and has no standing to it whatsoever. There were those who testified stating that Terri loved life and never would have said those things.


But again, like I said..she had both friends and family members (on her side of the family) testify that she wanted this.

The people that stated she didnt are the ones that said that even if she did want this, they wouldnt grant it.
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Posted by: mystic

Well..this is just how I feel at this point. There is only the he said/she said with the nurse and the husband.

I cant argue anything else without much more needed facts.

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Posted by: nikiTa

Where is this $700,000?
She has been getting no speech therapy, physical therapy, rehabilitation whatsoever.
The family has been wanting to provide these things, but Schiavo won't allow it.

Divorce her. Why won't he divorce her? Will he not receive this 700K if he divorces her? No wonder he wants her dead as soon as possible.
And with all these other allegations, there may be another motive.

It's all very fishy.

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Posted by: Edward Teach

He has denied her any therapy, she hasn't seen that outdoors for years. He has denied any work with her in eating normally.

I think the courts should apply the feeding tube long enough to send her to a team of doctors to run her throught every test they can think of. If they then come back and say she is a lost cause then so be it.

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Posted by: Edward Teach

Just as in the Scott Peterson case, Divorce is always an option.

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Posted by: schmiggens

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I think the courts should apply the feeding tube long enough to send her to a team of doctors to run her throught every test they can think of. If they then come back and say she is a lost cause then so be it.


Really that should've been the first thing happened.

They've probably tried, but I am sure that her parents can apply for guardianship or legal power of attorney based on the fact that Terri's husband is not looking out for Terri's best interests, has not enough interest in Terri (evidenced by his new relationship/ family), and is not giving her the care she needs.

I think the husband just really needs to be removed from the picture.
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Posted by: nikiTa

quote:
mystic said this in post #18 :

She could have easily taken it and had it checked for prints. Did the hospital document for this blood test she said happened?

Doesnt anyone find it odd that an everyday person could just walk into a hospital and have total influence on the whole system? I do.

Thats why I doubt her story somewhat.


First of all, it was a nursing home not a hospital.
Secondly, before Shiavo went into the room he grabbed her chart from the staff.

My grandmother, barely 5 foot tall commanded my grandfather's nursing home in the same manner. It is extremely possible. But she did it to ensure that they were taking the best care of my Pops as possible. Believe me, if a 5 foot granny can command a nursing home so could a big young man who may not have had the best intentions for his wife.
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Posted by: mystic

I found this to be interesting:

I thought it was her husband...in actuality, the nurses claim they saw the marks after her parents left.

Police Cite "No Reason For Concern" Over Terri Schiavo's Puncture Marks
By Dave Reynolds, Inclusion Daily Express
March 30, 2004

CLEARWATER, FLORIDA--Terri Schiavo was rushed to a hospital emergency room Monday night, after nursing home workers reported finding what appeared to be marks made by a small hypodermic needle on her arms.

Terri was returned to the nursing home a few hours later, after toxicology and blood tests found no unauthorized drugs or other substances in her system.

"There is no reason for concern," Clearwater Police spokesman Wayne Shelor said. "Neither my detective who stopped by the scene at the hospital, nor the medical experts found anything that gave them any pause."

Michael Schiavo's attorney, George Felos, said the five small puncture wounds -- four on one arm, and one on the other -- indicated that Terri had been a victim of battery.

"It appears that someone was either trying to inject Terri Schiavo with something or withdraw fluids from her," Felos said. "Even if there was nothing injected in her body, there is certainly evidence of an unpermitted physical contact, a battery on her."

Nursing personnel said they noticed the marks immediately after Terri's parents, Bob and Mary Schindler, visited her for 45 minutes.

Mr. Schindler told a local television station that nothing was wrong when he left Terri. He denied inserting a needle into her arms.

George Tragos, an attorney representing the Schindlers, said it was "absurd" to suggest that Terri's parents were responsible for the marks.

"It's just another mean-spirited attack designed to get some judicial advantage," Tragos told the Associated Press.

Mr. Schiavo has ordered that Terri have no visitors until authorities have completed their investigation.

The Schindlers and Michael Schiavo have been waging a legal war over Terri's life for the past six years. While her parents believe she responds to her environment and is alert, her husband believes she has been in a "persistent vegetative state", that she cannot interact with her surroundings, cannot feel pain, and will not recover from her 1990 brain injury. He petitioned the court in 1998 to have her feeding tube removed, claiming that she told him before her injury that she would not have wanted to live "by artificial means".

The courts ordered her feeding tube removed so she would die of starvation and dehydration on October 16, 2003. Governor Jeb Bush, responding to tens of thousands of messages from disability rights advocates and right-to-life supporters, championed "Terri's Law" through the Legislature, giving him permission to have the feeding tube reinserted six days later.

Mr. Schiavo immediately sued the governor, claiming that the law violated Terri's privacy, along with the Florida Constitution. That case is still pending.

On Monday afternoon, Pinellas County Circuit Judge George W. Greer denied the Schindlers' motion seeking to have Mr. Schiavo defend their claims that he is violating a 1996 court order which required him to share medical information about Terri. Schiavo argued that he has shared sufficient information with them through attorneys, which he claimed is the accepted protocol.

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Posted by: mystic

Appeals Court Wants Schiavo Case On Fast Track To Supreme Court;
Police Find No Criminal Intent Behind Puncture Marks

By Dave Reynolds, Inclusion Daily Express
May 14, 2004

CLEARWATER, FLORIDA--There were two major developments in the case of Terri Schiavo, during the week that followed a local court's decision to toss out the law which has kept her alive since October.

On Wednesday, the 2nd District Court of Appeal indicated that it wants the state's challenge to a May 6 Pinellas Circuit Court decision moved quickly to the state Supreme Court. It gave Governor Jeb Bush and Terri's husband, Michael Schiavo, 10 days to explain why the ruling that overturned "Terri's Law" should not bypass the appeals court and be sent directly to the high court as "a matter of great importance requiring immediate resolution."

On Friday, Clearwater police said that puncture marks discovered on Terri's arm on March 29 were not caused deliberately and that a device found in her bed was actually a connector for medical feeding and irrigation tubes.

Michael Schiavo restricted visits to his wife when he suspected that Terri's parents, Bob and Mary Schindler, used a hypodermic needle to inject something into her.

Police Chief Sid Klein said their investigation found no evidence of harm, injury or violation from a criminal act. Toxicology tests found nothing unusual in Terri's blood. Klein said it was likely that the marks came from a lift used to transport Terri at the nursing home.

http://www.inclusiondaily.com/archi.../14.htm#schiavo

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Posted by: nikiTa

Yeah right.
Her affidavit said she worked in a nursing home.
She has been in nursing homes and hospices not hospitals.
I have obviously all along been stating this nurses statements.

RE post 26. We don't know what's the truth in this situation.

Has someone included the CIA in on this because there is more disinformation regarding this case than I have had to endure watching the entire Iraqi conflict unfold!

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Posted by: mystic

quote:
sowhatsthetruth said this in post #28 :
Yeah right.
Her affidavit said she worked in a nursing home.
She has been in nursing homes and hospices not hospitals.
I have obviously all along been stating this nurses statements.


Okay...I mistakenly said hospital....

I dont understand the rest of what you are saying though. Im not stating that her "job" is making her a liar. Im confused.
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Posted by: nikiTa

quote:
mystic said this in post #27 :
Appeals Court Wants Schiavo Case On Fast Track To Supreme Court;
Police Find No Criminal Intent Behind Puncture Marks

By Dave Reynolds, Inclusion Daily Express
May 14, 2004

CLEARWATER, FLORIDA--There were two major developments in the case of Terri Schiavo, during the week that followed a local court's decision to toss out the law which has kept her alive since October.

On Wednesday, the 2nd District Court of Appeal indicated that it wants the state's challenge to a May 6 Pinellas Circuit Court decision moved quickly to the state Supreme Court. It gave Governor Jeb Bush and Terri's husband, Michael Schiavo, 10 days to explain why the ruling that overturned "Terri's Law" should not bypass the appeals court and be sent directly to the high court as "a matter of great importance requiring immediate resolution."

On Friday, Clearwater police said that puncture marks discovered on Terri's arm on March 29 were not caused deliberately and that a device found in her bed was actually a connector for medical feeding and irrigation tubes.

Michael Schiavo restricted visits to his wife when he suspected that Terri's parents, Bob and Mary Schindler, used a hypodermic needle to inject something into her.

Police Chief Sid Klein said their investigation found no evidence of harm, injury or violation from a criminal act. Toxicology tests found nothing unusual in Terri's blood. Klein said it was likely that the marks came from a lift used to transport Terri at the nursing home.

http://www.inclusiondaily.com/archi.../14.htm#schiavo



Which time on March 29 are they talking about?
The same time in the mid nineties when the nurse said she witnessed this?

What do these puncture marks have to do with allegations in the mid 90's?
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Posted by: nikiTa

quote:
mystic said this in post #29 :


Okay...I mistakenly said hospital....

I dont understand the rest of what you are saying though. Im not stating that her "job" is making her a liar. Im confused.


You were wondering how one person could take over a hospital.

A hospital would have been more difficult than a nursing home.

And I gave the analogy of my grandmother and how she very easily commandeered the nursing home where my grandfather was housed.

If my grandmother could commandeer a nursing home, surely a beligerant young strong man could have no problem.

Sorry for the confusion.
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Posted by: mystic

quote:
sowhatsthetruth said this in post #30 :



Which time on March 29 are they talking about?
The same time in the mid nineties when the nurse said she witnessed this?

What do these puncture marks have to do with allegations in the mid 90's?


2004.

I dont know...I cant find any articles that claim that she was taken to the hospital for that reason during that time.

This was the only thing I could find about any puncture marks on her arm.

Doesnt it seem odd that this nurse has the same claim as the one towards the parents in 2004?

Im not saying anything...I just found it wierd.
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Posted by: mystic

quote:
sowhatsthetruth said this in post #32 :


You were wondering how one person could take over a hospital.

A hospital would have been more difficult than a nursing home.

And I gave the analogy of my grandmother and how she very easily commandeered the nursing home where my grandfather was housed.

If my grandmother could commandeer a nursing home, surely a beligerant young strong man could have no problem.

Sorry for the confusion.


Oh...now I understand.

but still...a man "taking" over a mursing home..staff and all?

Its not like there arent any doctors there.

I mean I know abuse in nursing homes happen...but for one man to order people around like that and get away with it with absolutely not one staff member calling social services?
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Posted by: nikiTa

quote:
Im not saying anything...I just found it wierd.


The entire situation is wierd.
Really, it's been a while since I have had to sift through so much disinformation...and this isn't even geopolitics!
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Posted by: mystic

This was interesting as well:

A snippet of an article I found: So they are claiming the hospice and hospital are also to blame...

Doesnt anyone see that this is wierd. Now they are saying he had influence on a hospice, and a hospital as well?

Anyhow...

Sept, 3 2003.

Attorney named as 'non-party co-conspirator' to civil rights violations

The lawsuit filed by Terri's parents accuses Schiavo, both personally and in his official capacity as Terri's legal guardian, of violating the Americans with Disabilities Act for refusing to provide appropriate medical care and rehabilitation therapy, which are required by the law and for seeking to deprive her of nutrition and hydration, which is forbidden by the law.

George Felos, Michael Schiavo's attorney and a noted author and advocate in Florida's so-called "right to die" movement, is also named as a "non-party co-conspirator" in the lawsuit. The Schindlers allege that Schiavo, with Felos' help, sought to deprive Terri of her due process rights under the Fifth and 14th Amendments to the U.S. Constitution.

The suit charges that Terri was denied a guardian ad litem during most of the legal proceedings in which her husband sought to end her life and, the remainder of the time, suffered from "ineffective assistance of counsel, due process violations, and blatant conflict of interest with Terri's guardian, defendant Michael Schiavo," who is responsible for seeing that her legal interests are represented.

The only guardian ad litem and the only attorney to represent Terri prior to her parents' intervention in the case were removed when the attorney suggested that Michael Schiavo had a conflict of interest that prohibited him from serving as Terri's guardian.

The complaint also alleges that Schiavo and Felos conspired to deprive Terri of access to her priest in violation of the First Amendment and that the use of a 1999 Florida law in her case represented a Fifth Amendment due process violation of the constitutional prohibition on ex post facto legislation since Mrs. Schiavo had suffered her injury in 1990.

All of the cumulative rights violations are alleged under 42 USC 1983, which provides that, "Every person who, under color of any statute, ordinance, regulation, custom, or usage, of any State or Territory or the District of Columbia, subjects, or causes to be subjected, any citizen of the United States or other person within the jurisdiction thereof to the deprivation of any rights, privileges, or immunities secured by the Constitution and laws, shall be liable to the party injured in an action at law, suit in equity, or other proper proceeding for redress."

The hospice where Terri Schiavo is being kept and the hospital where her infection was supposed to have been treated are also accused of violating the Rehabilitation Act of 1973. That law requires that "handicapped" receive comparable medical care to that given able-bodied patients with similar conditions or injuries. Both facilities are subject to the Rehabilitation Act because they receive federal Medicare funding. The hospital is also charged with violating provisions of the Social Security law in 42 USC 1395dd, which requires the examination and appropriate treatment of emergency medical conditions and forbids the discharge of patients before their conditions are stabilized. The Schindlers believe their daughter was prematurely discharged from the hospital on more than one occasion in an attempt to hasten her death.

Felos accused the Schindlers of trying to subvert the Florida justice system.

"The purpose of this lawsuit is to invalidate the lower court's decision," Felos told the Tampa Tribune Tuesday.

U.S. District Judge Richard Lazzara gave the Schindlers ten days to file an amended version of their lawsuit and offered Felos an additional ten days to respond. He would not, however, block a hearing scheduled for Sept. 11, during which Pinellas-Pasco Florida Circuit Judge George Greer is expected to set a date for Terri Schiavo's feeding tube to be removed.

Attorneys for both sides told reporters after the emergency hearing Tuesday that they do not expect Greer to set that date any earlier than the 20-day period set by the federal court for the Schindlers' amended complaint and Felos' response.

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Posted by: mystic

quote:
sowhatsthetruth said this in post #35 :


The entire situation is wierd.
Really, it's been a while since I have had to sift through so much disinformation...and this isn't even geopolitics!


I know!
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Posted by: nikiTa

quote:
mystic said this in post #34 :


Oh...now I understand.

but still...a man "taking" over a mursing home..staff and all?

Its not like there arent any doctors there.

I mean I know abuse in nursing homes happen...but for one man to order people around like that and get away with it with absolutely not one staff member calling social services?


It's very sad what goes on in these places.
Intimidation makes people do stupid things and overlook things as well.
In the nurse's affidavit she stated that she had to do everything Shiavo said or she would be fired. That is odd. He sounds like an extremely controlling person...(not just from this nurse's testimony)...and if that is the case...I am sure I don't have to tell you that extremely controlling people can have a tendency toward abuse.

And I know that my grandmother who is an extremely controlling person became a very bitter and angry woman from having to take care of my grandfather all those years.

I am not trying to make an excuse for behavior...but I am beginning to see this a little differently given my experience in a similar situation. (I know you hate me to do this, but if I can draw on personal experience to understand something, it helps me to understand in some ways.)

Not really for arguments' sake, because like you, I find this entire situation befuddling.
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Posted by: mystic

You know what Id like to see...

How is his relationship with the woman he is with now?

I wonder if anyone has witnessed something there?

I mean if he isnt abusive to her??

I wonder if anyone has said anything about that.

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Posted by: fuscia

quote:
sowhatsthetruth said this in post #21 :
Where is this $700,000?
She has been getting no speech therapy, physical therapy, rehabilitation whatsoever.
The family has been wanting to provide these things, but Schiavo won't allow it.

Divorce her. Why won't he divorce her? Will he not receive this 700K if he divorces her? No wonder he wants her dead as soon as possible.
And with all these other allegations, there may be another motive.

It's all very fishy.


The accusation that he denied her therapy is false. After the malpractice claim, he had her flown to California to try an experimental brain stimulator. He also had an aide work with her on therapy 8 hours a day during at time that she also saw speech and occupational therapists. His lawyer says there is NO money to go to Michael because it was spent all on Terri. As for these accusations, the nurse had an axe to grind. According to Michael and his lawyer the charge nurse said that Michael really got on the nurses if he thought they were not treating Terri very well. She worked with Terri daily for 4 years and said that Terri NEVER was able to swallow.

Why divorce her? He could. It would make his life easier, but he made a promise to the woman he loves and is man enough to honor it. All of these stories are spun from the Schindler side. Why the rift between the families? Because MR. Schindler wanted Terri's half of the money for himself instead of it going to Terri. Yep, daddy tried to shake down the son-in-law for money. Some father.

I should also note that as of 2003 according to Michael Terri has NEVER had even a bed sore and has only had pneumonia once. Controlling, yes, why the hell not? His wife is in the most vulnerable state you can be in. Everyone knows that the patients who have pushy demanding relatives are less likely to be abused in nursing homes.
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Posted by: schmiggens

Needles aren't only used for injecting things INTO People, they're also used for taking things OUT, it's possible her parents heard the rumours and took a blood sample to have her blood tested independantly for insulin, etc.

It's far-fetched, but so are a lot of the other allegations going around.

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Posted by: fuscia

He does have a young child with this woman.

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Posted by: mystic

quote:
fuscia said this in post #40 :


The accusation that he denied her therapy is false. After the malpractice claim, he had her flown to California to try an experimental brain stimulator. He also had an aide work with her on therapy 8 hours a day during at time that she also saw speech and occupational therapists. His lawyer says there is NO money to go to Michael because it was spent all on Terri. As for these accusations, the nurse had an axe to grind. According to Michael and his lawyer the charge nurse said that Michael really got on the nurses if he thought they were not treating Terri very well. She worked with Terri daily for 4 years and said that Terri NEVER was able to swallow.

Why divorce her? He could. It would make his life easier, but he made a promise to the woman he loves and is man enough to honor it. All of these stories are spun from the Schindler side. Why the rift between the families? Because MR. Schindler wanted Terri's half of the money for himself instead of it going to Terri. Yep, daddy tried to shake down the son-in-law for money. Some father.


Thank goodness!!!

Im so glad you are seeing it my way as well!

Thanks for the added info!!

I was so lonely in here for awhile tonight!
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Posted by: fuscia

I watched two Larry King Live shows that he was on. ONe from 2003 and the one last night. I also have watched the Schindlers on various programs. Michael had evidence. I also have worked at hospitals, and my sister is a nurse who has worked in nursing homes. You have to be the voice for your loved one. I was surprised that Michael tried therapy for Terri for so many years. Did you all know that he had the aide taking her to the mall, going outside, doing her makeup and hair, anything to try to stimulate her and bring her back?

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Posted by: mystic

quote:
fuscia said this in post #45 :
I watched two Larry King Live shows that he was on. ONe from 2003 and the one last night. I also have watched the Schindlers on various programs. Michael had evidence. I also have worked at hospitals, and my sister is a nurse who has worked in nursing homes. You have to be the voice for your loved one. I was surprised that Michael tried therapy for Terri for so many years. Did you all know that he had the aide taking her to the mall, going outside, doing her makeup and hair, anything to try to stimulate her and bring her back?


I didnt know that....but Im glad to see that he had evidence backing that up!

There are so many claims that he did nothing...obviously that isnt true!

Thanks for the info!
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Posted by: fuscia

We need to mention that he turned down 3 million dollars that was offered to him to turn custody of Terri over to her parents. So, if he was after money, he could have had it.

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Posted by: schmiggens

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Why divorce her? He could. It would make his life easier, but he made a promise to the woman he loves and is man enough to honor it.


What promise? His wedding vows? He already broke them by seeing someone else while she was alive. The vows are "till death " not "till PVS".
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Posted by: fuscia

The promise was to make sure that she did not ever end up with tubes in her body and being dependent on them. Terri is only there in body. Everything that made her Terri is gone. That is a case where you should not throw stones unless you have been in this man's shoes.

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Posted by: Lawless

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schmiggens said this in post #48 :


What promise? His wedding vows? He already broke them by seeing someone else while she was alive. The vows are "till death " not "till PVS".



Do you have any idea how hard it's been for him, to not have his wife, for 15 years? I can't blame the man. Terri is basically dead. He had to move on.
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Posted by: mystic

I dont understand this "until death do you part" argument

He wasnt supposed to go on with his life until this mess was cleared up?

I mean she is gone.

Im sure this wouldnt even be a concern if her parents hadnt fought him on this for 15 years.

The man deserves a life. Just because her parent chose this route didnt mean that he had to put everything in his life on hold.

I would expect my husband to move on if I were like that...

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Everything that made her Terri is gone. That is a case where you should not throw stones unless you have been in this man's shoes.


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Do you have any idea how hard it's been for him, to not have his wife, for 15 years? I can't blame the man. Terri is basically dead. He had to move on.


Exactly!
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Posted by: Lawless

Well put, mystic... he does deserve a life.

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Posted by: Lawless

Oh please... he's stood by her side, for everything. I would love to see you, or anyone else, in his shoes.

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Posted by: Lawless

Oh, and how about lawful... lets talk about that. He is the husband. I think that he KNOWS what his wife wanted... and tried to give her what she asked for.

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Posted by: fuscia

If he divorced her that would put her at her parents mercy, and they have stated in court that they do not care what Terri wanted, they want their way, they want her alive. He did the right thing.

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Posted by: fuscia

Neither do her parents. You don't tell lies on national TV.

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Posted by: Lawless

quote:
Heavens11 said this in post #57 :
It's called integrity. A lot of people don't have it... and it's a shame.



Oh, it's called integrity. Sure... the fact that, even though he's trying to have a life, he hasn't just walked away and left her. He is still there for her. But hey... I guess that it's okay to judge someone else's life... it's easier to not have to look in the mirror that way!!!
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Posted by: fuscia

For the record, Terri told her best friend and two other relatives her wishes.

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Posted by: Lawless

quote:
Heavens11 said this in post #60 :


That's basically what it comes down to, isn't it? His word against the world... and his word will be heard as being right in the eyes of the laws we made.


I believe that's called "FAITH" After all, if it was YOUR wife, and you had had a conversation about not ever wanting to live like a vegetable, etc... and this happened to her, it would be YOUR word... and you would try to do your best to uphold her wishes!!!
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Posted by: Lawless

Who says that HE doesn't have it? YOU? Well, you're judging him. You aren't IN HIS SHOES! And until you are... don't cast stones at him. You have NO IDEA what he's been through.

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Posted by: schmiggens

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You have NO IDEA what he's been through.


And you do?

I actually have to go through this with my mother who has had a PEG tube in her stomach and had it removed because she didn't like it and she had trouble sleeping with it in. She is lucky because she can still eat blended food somewhat normally so the tube is not 100% neccessary. My mother has said that she doesn't want the tube in when she finally can't eat anymore and she would rather die. I know her wishes and have told her I will not put the tube in.

When it actually comes down to watching my mother starve to death, I may change my mind, I may not. It is a hard decision for anyone to make.
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Posted by: schmiggens

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After all, if it was YOUR wife, and you had had a conversation about not ever wanting to live like a vegetable, etc... and this happened to her, it would be YOUR word... and you would try to do your best to uphold her wishes!!!


You can say that, but the reality is until you actually go through a situation like this, you can't know what you would do in their shoes.

Sherry, if Ron was like this, and you saw him smile, you would probably hold onto that small glimmer of hope and try and keep him alive.
KJ, I would think you would do the same for your partner.

Granted 15 years is a long time to hold on based only on a smile, but it's certainly not unreasonable behaviour in a situation like this.
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Posted by: Lawless

Actually Emma... YES, I did go through it... with my former father in law. I watched my husbands family, and what they went through (and what I went through too... for that man was my father as well). It was the hardest decision that was made (and we all did it, as a family, together).

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Posted by: Lawless

quote:
Heavens11 said this in post #66 :


We know he's having an affair with another woman and has a child with that woman. Irregardless of the hardships he's endured with Terri, where is it written that it's alright to have this affair and child while still married and maintain your integrity?



So now, lets just judge him, for having a life!!!! WOW!!! I swear, the finger pointing never ends anywhere in this life!!!
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Posted by: Lawless

quote:
Heavens11 said this in post #65 :



Could you expound?



It's called having faith.... and the rest of my post. I thought that it was clear.

Having faith that the man is telling the truth. Isn't that what we do in the courts, etc... ?
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Posted by: Lawless

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schmiggens said this in post #68 :


You can say that, but the reality is until you actually go through a situation like this, you can't know what you would do in their shoes.

Sherry, if Ron was like this, and you saw him smile, you would probably hold onto that small glimmer of hope and try and keep him alive.
KJ, I would think you would do the same for your partner.

Granted 15 years is a long time to hold on based only on a smile, but it's certainly not unreasonable behaviour in a situation like this.


It wasn't my partner... but, it's called doing what you have to do, to give someone their wishes. My mum has made her wishes VERY clear. I will uphold them, no matter what. My father had made his clear, and we followed them, to the "T" It's called honouring what another person has asked you for. Nothing more... nothing less.

And I will do as my partner has asked... no matter how much it could hurt. Because, it's my word, to her, as she has given me hers....
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Posted by: schmiggens

What Sherry, Mystic and KJ seem to be saying is that it's alright for him to have renegged on his wedding vows because she's in PVS, but we should applaud him for not renegging on his promise to not let her life supported by tubes?

Why in your minds is that second promise greater than the first one? Why doesn't it matter that he keeps his wedding vow, it matters more that he keeps this other promise? His wedding vows were done publicly, supposedly in covenant with God and the second promise was just a conversation between two people.

His wedding vows end because his wife is PVS, but his obligation to her not living by tubes has to endure? He should be allowed to move on and remarry but not move on and walk away from his ex-wife?

You can't really have one without the other IMO.

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Posted by: Lawless

She is DEAD!!! She is NEVER, EVER coming back. She has NO BRAIN!!!! Why can't you understand that???

I guess that it's okay to break laws in life, as long as they "fit" your life... but as soon as it's something that you have issue with, then whoa...

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Posted by: mystic

quote:
fuscia said this in post #61 :
For the record, Terri told her best friend and two other relatives her wishes.


Forget it Fuscia...I tried telling them this..

It fell on deaf ears.
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Posted by: HECK!

I think Terri would want her husband to move on with his life and be happy. All things being equal, 'death' parted them all those years back.

-HECK!

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Posted by: Lawless

quote:
mystic said this in post #75 :


Forget it Fuscia...I tried telling them this..

It fell on deaf ears.



I've noticed!
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Posted by: fuscia

Emma, his wife died LONG ago. That part that made her Terri is gone. That is not a difficult concept to grasp. The part of her brain that is conscious and contains her personality was liquified. She is unable to ever be a partner to him. She is unable to ever be ANYTHING to anyone again in any capacity close to what she was. So, he is married to her still to protect her. Yes protect her and see that her wishes reguarding her life are carried out. It takes an act of love to put up with all the name calling and B.S. that has been dished out his way.

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Posted by: schmiggens

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Forget it Fuscia...I tried telling them this..

It fell on deaf ears.


I accept that, and if it was her wishes, then I support the fact that she should have the tube removed.

I just want to know why you think that promise that he made Terri is more valid than his wedding vows.
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Posted by: mystic

quote:
Heavens11 said this in post #66 :


We know he's having an affair with another woman and has a child with that woman. Irregardless of the hardships he's endured with Terri, where is it written that it's alright to have this affair and child while still married and maintain your integrity?


Sorry Heavens...

Thats a very weak argument.

The man lost his wife 15 years ago.

Had her parents honored her wishes (and they said they never would)..he wouldnt have to have people like you judging him in this way.

To say that he has no integrity because he is still married and went on to love another woman?

His wife is GONE!

I dont think anyone has the right to judge him...like some have already stated...

"Until youve walked in his shoes..."
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Posted by: fuscia

quote:
mystic said this in post #75 :


Forget it Fuscia...I tried telling them this..

It fell on deaf ears.


This whole thing is just a case of the parents having a sensational story that people want to believe. Michael has rarely given interviews. It is all sad.
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Posted by: Lawless

quote:
HECK said this in post #76 :
I think Terri would want her husband to move on with his life and be happy. All things being equal, 'death' parted them all those years back.

-HECK!


That reminds me of something....

Before I went into the hospital last month, for my spinal surgery, I wrote a book, of my thoughts, wishes, dreams, etc... to my partner. And one thing in there was about if something happened to me, for ANY reason, that I didn't want her to not ever find love, happiness, and a life, with someone else. Now, we've not been together but 6 months.... these are things that people, who are together, and in a loving relationship, talk about. You want that person to move on... and not have to live their life alone, sad, empty.
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Posted by: HECK!

I think we're talking semantics here people.

You can talk spirituality, medical evidence, etc., what it looks like this debate is boiling down to is perception of the facts at hand.

-HECK!

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Posted by: schmiggens

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fuscia said this in post #78 :
Emma, his wife died LONG ago. That part that made her Terri is gone. That is not a difficult concept to grasp. The part of her brain that is conscious and contains her personality was liquified. She is unable to ever be a partner to him. She is unable to ever be ANYTHING to anyone again in any capacity close to what she was. So, he is married to her still to protect her. Yes protect her and see that her wishes reguarding her life are carried out. It takes an act of love to put up with all the name calling and B.S. that has been dished out his way.


If Terri is dead enough that she doesn't care that her husband is cheating on her and having babies with another woman, then she is dead enough not to know whether she has the tubes in her.
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Posted by: mystic

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schmiggens said this in post #68 :


You can say that, but the reality is until you actually go through a situation like this, you can't know what you would do in their shoes.

Arent you doing the same? The difference is that we believe him based on testimony of people she knew...as opposed to you saying that he is a scum for moving on.

Sherry, if Ron was like this, and you saw him smile, you would probably hold onto that small glimmer of hope and try and keep him alive.
KJ, I would think you would do the same for your partner.

Granted 15 years is a long time to hold on based only on a smile, but it's certainly not unreasonable behaviour in a situation like this.


SHE ISNT SMILING! Its a reflective action. Reflexes like this happens in PVS!



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Posted by: HECK!

quote:
Kris Rucker said this in post #82 :


That reminds me of something....

Before I went into the hospital last month, for my spinal surgery, I wrote a book, of my thoughts, wishes, dreams, etc... to my partner. And one thing in there was about if something happened to me, for ANY reason, that I didn't want her to not ever find love, happiness, and a life, with someone else. Now, we've not been together but 6 months.... these are things that people, who are together, and in a loving relationship, talk about. You want that person to move on... and not have to live their life alone, sad, empty.


And that must have been gut-wrenching. But you are so right though. Why have someone cling onto a memory, a shell of the person they loved.

-HECK!
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Posted by: gaboman

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Kris Rucker said this in post #82 :

these are things that people, who are together, and in a loving relationship, talk about. You want that person to move on... and not have to live their life alone, sad, empty.

That is very true. I have never met anyone in a loving (or even non-loving) relationship that hasn't spoken of this stuff. And to be honest, if my wishes weren't fulfilled, I'd be down in Hell cursing the person who prolonged it all.
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Posted by: Lawless

quote:
HECK said this in post #86 :


And that must have been gut-wrenching. But you are so right though. Why have someone cling onto a memory, a shell of the person they loved.

-HECK!



It was very hard to write.... and even harder for her to read!!! She cried the entire time she read that...
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Posted by: HECK!

I am assuming the hubbie hooked up with this chick after Terri went into the coma?

-HECK!

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Posted by: HECK!

quote:
Kris Rucker said this in post #88 :



It was very hard to write.... and even harder for her to read!!! She cried the entire time she read that...


You are a strong lady, KJ. It's these tough choices that not everyone gets, I think.

-HECK!
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Posted by: gaboman

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schmiggens said this in post #84 :


If Terri is dead enough that she doesn't care that her husband is cheating on her and having babies with another woman, then she is dead enough not to know whether she has the tubes in her.

And too dead to care if the tube is removed and she dies of thirst. Her family can hang on as much as they want, and they can keep her alive artificially for years to come, but it would accomplish nothing.
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Posted by: mystic

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schmiggens said this in post #79 :


I accept that, and if it was her wishes, then I support the fact that she should have the tube removed.

I just want to know why you think that promise that he made Terri is more valid than his wedding vows.


As Kris already explained...

She's gone!

His promise was kept to protect her wishes!

Until then he has a right to have a relationship!

Id love to see you take care of your spouse in this case, and never have any life outside of taking care of someone who is already gone.

You can say you would...but you would be lying!
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Posted by: schmiggens

quote:
mystic said this in post #80 :
The man lost his wife 15 years ago.

His wife is GONE!


Then why won't he let her go?

quote:
mystic said this in post #80 :
Had her parents honored her wishes (and they said they never would)..he wouldnt have to have people like you judging him in this way.

I dont think anyone has the right to judge him...like some have already stated...

"Until youve walked in his shoes..."


"People like you" ... ?

In theory Mystic, no one has the right to judge anyone, except God, who has the right to judge all of us. None of us have walked in any of these people's shoes, yet we are all judging whether your on one side of the fence or the other, people judge, it's what we do.
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Posted by: Lawless

Why should he let go of his responsibility to see her wish carried through? I wouldn't allow someone to take that away from my Love. NEVER!!!

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Posted by: gaboman

quote:
schmiggens said this in post #93 :


Then why won't he let her go?
I think we're going around in circles. Chances are it's because he does still love her (she was his wife after all), and he wants to ensure her wishes are fulfilled.
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