off subject but whats up tith these boys these days!!

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omg boys are making me soooo mad. the man i thought i loved who i have not seen in almost forever (clayfan4ever you know him)will not talk to me!!!!!! and i dont know why!!!! im going to cry!!! sometimes i almost hate him then deep down i love him.see it sux cuz he lives in fla and im moving to tennessee! i miss him but if i ever saw him again id slap him!!!!!!! oh lordy i hate mixed feelings. i think im going to get off in a min and cry my self to sleep. well thanks for reading if ya do bye bye luv yas all like sisters! ttyl

ohhh i'm sooo sorry i am having boy troubles right now too, cause tonight i saw my boyfriend, and he wouldn't even talk to me!

guys today are.....bad...well most are...all the ones I know are....

I have a cuz that is SUPER nice and not immature and will do anything for me, he's the one from GA.

yeah. well buh bye guys i talk to ya later.

Hey, I know you already left, but where are you going?

I feel so bad for you all!! I don't really have that many "boy problems" right now. Well... I do, we all do, all the time, right? But it's not as bad as it used to be. My ex, who i was with for over a year, is moving this summer. And I still like him... well the old him, he's different now. For about 3 years i've cried and been sad over him, and now he's moving. So i guess it's good that he's leaving. So now I liek this other guy.. well, I've liked him for about 8 months... and i've known him for 8 years! annnyways.... he's sorta the reason that i broke up with my ex, cuz i liked him while i was going out with my boyfriend. it's hard to do that, please, don't try! haha...... anyways.... that guy doesn't like me either, although we are friends. he COULD like me... but I don't think he does. Altough other people say he could. Anyways.... be happy people. I know it sucks, but it will get better. I never really thought of it until right now... but most of my guy problems... at least the ones that make me cry, are gone! !! I'm still confused as hell, but at least i'm smiling! hehe

Yeah, well I'm kinda upset, cause I have no way to talk to my boyfriend, cause at softball games of mine that he goes to, he doesn't talk to me and now they are all over so i can't see them, and he won't answer his phone when i call, so I have no way of talking to him.

lol your funny.we have been friends for a verry long time then all the sudden he wont talk to me. i went to sleep claysgurl

Oh ok, sorry it sounded like you were like leaving on a trip or something, I'm gonna miss you guys soooooooo much when I go on my trip on July 18, I don't really get home until August 2, but I wil be home for like 2 days of that time, and I will try my hardest to get on a ton then, but I will really miss you guys, don't worry, before I leave I will start a whole thread about it, because this is the longest trip I have ever been on.

I'm leaving in 5 days!!!!! hehe but for a good thing!!

yupyupyup for OMC!!!! yay!!! I don't have that many boy problem's right now either nothing out of the norm....claymybuttercup yeah I know who you are talking about and he seems like a real _______!!! I know that you still like him I can tell but it sounds like he needs a little bit better personality but he seems cool I don't want you to move! ....Anthony is spending the night and he says to tell yall HeY!!!

hi anthony and clayfan4ever.

yea, I may be going to the beach later this summer...but I'm not sure....oh but to boy problems tonight were our city fireworks and I went with my family but ended up hanging out with my best friend, Mary and her husband, Aaron (they are only my age) but she is with child...and the whole time we were there...it felt like he was checking me out and I was like...OH GOSH...because I used to have a crush on him b4 they were going out....but now that they are married and have a baby on the way, it's like OK....OVER It....well that's my biggest problem right now...

hehe~side note~ON Saturday night live they are doing this funny skit and they are dancing to Kelly Clarkson...it's funny!!!!

I dont have any boy problems. idont get involved with boys and im glad cuz seeing claysgurl, it makes me want to never have a bf. the thing with guys is that they just are less mature than girls (in my oponion) and they just tend to act strangly so i just avoid them

HI anthony!!!!!!!!!im gonna talk to you sometime!!!!!!!!yall have fun clayfan4ever!! well imo boys are hard to avoid. im a little flirt!

not me i only have like 1 friend thats a boy, its prolly cause im not to nice to them but ive thought boys were imature and not worth my time since 3rd grade so its hard to chang my ways

Hey is the guy Mike, you mean the one that I went out with for like more then half of the school year, if that is who you mean, then yeah he's super nice, and now we are just REALLY REALLY close friends, even though at some points, i REALLY i wish that we had more together.

my thing......I don't go looking for guys but if they come looking for me..I'm here!!!!

yea its mike claysgurl, he's the nicest guy i know!

He is SUPER nice, even if I don't go out with him again, at least I went out with him for like half of a year, I will always remember that!

yea, it's better to have him for a little while then never at all!!!!

i never had him! i wanted him soo bad!!! and i missed out on him!

I still never got to get with Jack....remember my best friend, that broke my heart....but I try to keep my heart well coverd....

is he still going out with that girl??

yea he's stilll with her.... ...at the fireworks in our town though, my friend, Mary (who is his friend too) said that he really wanted to see me...that night but I didn't feel like going to find him....but he called me that night...the first in like a month....and we talked but not about each other...but like about one of them pointless talks...but...he hasn't called me since and that was the 3rd....

Well he still cares about you, so that's good. Maybe you should phone him. Does he know that you like him

he doesn't know that I like him...and if I called him....he may find it weird because I never call him...ever....I may though...I don't know...it was nice hearing from him but the whole time it was like "yea" "huh" "sounds good" and it wasn't like us really talking...I hope he still cares for me as friend, although I wish more...

Yeah, I know what you mean, I have a best friend as he wants me to call him, that I have known since I was less then a year old, and I really want to go out with him, but he says that we are too good of friends to go out with each other, so I'm all upset about that, but I think that I will get over it sometime in the next century or so.

now see Claysgurl, if my best friend, Jack, would of said that to me...that we're too good of friends to date...I would of been like OK...but he lied and said he was gay....so it hurt and got me madder at him

omg..... he told you he was GAY?? That's horrible!

yea that's why he said nothing would ever happen between us. Most my friends didn't believe him because when I **thought he was gay**, we were close and like...we would share chairs, lay on beds together and just hang on each other because I never thought he would feel for a girl...you know what I mean right???

yeah i totally understand what you mean. but omg why would he do that!? that's horrible to LIE and say you're gay! OMG!! why did he say he was?

my only reactin to that bit of info "jaw drop" and "gasp"

yeah that's pretty much how i felt too... hot4johnstevens, i feel so bad about that.

I would have KILLED Jason, (the friend that i have been friends with forever) if he ever siad that he was gay and wouldn't go out with me, and yeah, when we were little and even know we sit around sharing chairs and laying on the bed.

I was so mad at him. I still am in away...it hurt a lot. All my friends never believed him because they all thought he just wanted to have a girl, to hang on and be with and never have to worry about a relationship......

I can't wait until I'm older, so that I can like sit around on beds and stuff with people and not have it be very bad.

it kinda seems weird to me. me and this guy were real close friends forever. we were born the same month but he is 4 days older tham me. our moms and dads were super close friends. me and that boy even took baths together up untill we were like 6 maybe. i dont like to talk to him much cuz he is goin out with this girl who is a *****(bad word) and i dunno im weird

Well, I have been friends with this guy since I was like ten months old and we had parents that were like best friends, we even go on trips together. I really hope that we stay at least sorta friends forever.

lol

cool, well I don't know what I was talkin about, but like the other night this guy invited me over to his house and I spent the night, then he and I like talked until like 6 in the morning. I don't know it was really wierd, cause now he wouldn't talk to me if his life depended on it. Don't worry we didn't do anythin bad together.

oh claysgurl.....me, I'm not really looking for guys right now...after the whole Jack thing....kinda sick of guys this summer

Im always sick of guys i dont think they're worth my time

clay#1fan...I mean one day their be worth your time...just not right now....


my mom is already telling me that I need to find a prom date...and that's not intill Apirl....

woah.....don't rush to get a prom date! what if you get a date, and then get a bf? then would u just ditch your date!?

it will be a while untill guys are worth my time

I am not rushing to find a date for prom just yet because your right what if I get a date and then a boyfriend...but my ex-friend, Jack....he and I were going to go together.....but now after this summer I don't know....the thing though, since this is senior prom...just about everyone gets their dates like a year ahead of time...I know it sounds nuts but it's how it goes....so...right now I guess I am just waiting

OMG...Jack...that boy....he called me last night but I was watching the Amazing race with my brother and didn't get the call on my cell....but he was only calling because he's sister started something with my mom at work....she was talking to my Aunt Laura (not real aunt, just old family friend) about Jack and his girlfriend and my mom was sitting right there...so my mom goes, "Yea, since he is with her...he doesn't call my sarah anymore" and his sister just gave my mom a dirty look.....and then my mom goes, "well atleast he is with a girl" and that was it...but it called me.....