Please help me through this!

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My boyfriend who "likes" me is flirting with this other girl that he went out with for a long time and it is making me mad! Would you guys please help me through this?

omg!!! i feel so bad for you! I don't really know what you can do, other than talk to him about it.

I'm so sorry.....

you are breaking up with him soon right? or are you still nervous? break up with him on the 4th if possible I'll be there incase you need some emotional support!


- I told you he was a @%&!@#!

aww i was in a sit like that.. excpt he thought i liked some other boy. i wrote him a note telling him how it made me feel that he thought i liked this other dude. then i broke up with him. he was moving to germany anyways...!!

oh well....I had a guy who was "flirting" with another girl right infront of my face but I was so scared to break-up him....

thanx for the support, i finally figured out that the girl who told me that he was flirting with her was just jealous, and that he wasn't flirting with another girl.

happy to hear everything worked out.....

well it's not actuallly worked out yet!

oh.....

hmm

yea.....well I hope everything works out.....

i still hate the guys guts but yea that gurl rides the bus with me and she is obsessed with him so she would be jealous

oh really...now which girl rides your bus...Claysgurl or the one that likes her guy????

the one that likes my guy and it makes me REALLY mad, cause last night she made me like her, and so tonight i went to watch her softball game and cheer her on, and all she would talk about was how much my guy liked her, and i saw him, and he didn't talk to me, im just so confused right now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i'm so sorry Claysgurl....

Take it from a voice of experience girl...

1st~get away from this girl. If all she can talk about is how much your man likes her then she isn't a friend..she is only trying to fan the flames.

2nd~If your man isn't defending himself or YOU for that matter then maybe he isn't worth your time. You need to tell him how this makes you feel and tell him that you want him to end the situation with this other girl. If he won't then you know he is not worth a wonderful girl like you. If that happens. Take time to be young and have fun. When you get older you will appreciate the time you spent with your friends and family. Men only make things worse...haha. Trust me I've been married for 3 years and this is my second marriage.

It doesn't seem like he is all that wonderful if he isn't even talking to you. Does It?

wow!! invisible we should call you Mrs. advice giver!. lol you said that well!! i look up to you! and all of what you said is good advice!! im going to pm you and i have a question and maybe you have the answer..

k i pmed you invisible

yea seriosly claysgurl the guy isnt talking to you, i dont think thats a sign of him liking you a ton. but at least he isnt running away from you like last time you dated him. (or is he?)

no, he's not running away from me, now I like this other guy that came to my house for a fourth of july party tonight, he is REALLY nice, and he actually cares about what i want to do! talk about mood swings, yeah i've kinda given up on my guy that i'm going out with but oh well it was nice for that one night that we stayed up together talking and thank the lord nothin else.

well claysgurl, I am happy to hear that you are moving on and dropping that other guy...have ya'all broken up yet....

you mean the 14 year old guy that I was always arguing with? if so thats cool. so your dropping your guy? (I hope so)

nice to hear everything is working out for the better

lets hope thats the case

I know.....

Yep it is working out well and I haven't dropped him yet, but as soon as I get in touch with him, that will be my plan.

I no I knew u would b happy!

proud and happy for you, Claysgurl!!!!

Thanx, for awhile there I was trapped in his evil transe, he had me stuck into likin him, but know I know that I don't really like him at all! I actually like this guy named Seth who came to my house for the 4th, I've known him just as long as I have known that other kid that I said I have known all of my life if you remember.

yea....I'm happy to see that you have moved on...man that's such a great feeling I know

yea he is i think that his looks played into the trance thing. he was pretty cute! so your gonna ask seth out? do you think he'll say yes? j/w

I don't know if I will ask him out, but I'm hoping to become better friends with him.

that's good, you should be friends first.....

Well, I have been friends with him for like my entire life, and I REALLY wish that it could go to more then just friends.

well if you really like him and really want to date him....and your willing to put your friendship on the line....then tell him...I never did and that's why me and Jack are just still friends....well were

Well, he is like a lot older then me, so I think that I should wait, even though I think that he likes me also. Oh and just so everyone knows, I broke up with that guy that I started this thread about.

you did? ! did you see him? or did you call him? or did he call you? details girly details!

I actually just wrote him a note that I will give him the next time I see him, but now he told Amanda the one that used to be in our grade that he loved me, and he couldn't wait until I stayed over at his house again, and he started talking to her about the night that he stayed up in the tent and all that with me.

Well, silly me, I already am going out with a new guy that I haven't talked about, but he is like one of the nicest people ever. I went out with him last september, but then he hated me (that's what he said to cover how much he likes me), so we are gonna go out again. The other guy that I started this thread about actually just started going out with this other girl before he told me that we were broken up, then now she is breaking up with him because he's still "going out" with me, but I already have a new guy also, but the guy that I started this thread about is going to ask me back out tomorrow and I REALLY don't like him anymore!

man am i I dont get caught up with boys

man claysgurl...you got to many guys....this is why I take the summer off....from guys

Guess wat, I have a new boyfriend, but I have been dreamin of going out with him for like oh say about 5 months, it's like sooo cool, I have 4 guys that are like fawning over me, apparently I'm cute to them I guess.

yea im sooooooo hapy for you! now you can totally obsess over your new bf and I wont think your quite as crazy!

yeah, really that's true!

I'm sooooooo happy, I love him sooo much!

I can tell!

I'm so happy for you Claysgurl...I hope you the best with him....

Well he just broke up with me for no stinkin reason.

=o!!!!!!!!!!

Well, now we are going back out again, if you would like to see what happened you can go to http://www.inreview.com/showthread....460&forumid=138 and find the whole story!

oh well I went and read it...oh claysgurl...I think you found a winner and I hope all the wellness with him....

Thanx, you don't know how much your saying how I've found a winner is helping me out!

well your welcome claysgurl....I'm just here to help !!!!

I'm still looking for my sweet redhead....but Georgia don't have many....

yeah

but then again they is only a handful of Redheads in the world..but I will find one..somewhere one day

There is a redhead in my grade of whom I'm like best friends with, we have been the best of friends since I was like 10 months old, we even go on trips together!

yea...I have a redhead female friend (which doesn't help me any)...and they are some around my school....and then my best friend, Mary's husband is redheaded....but I like the red red hair...like John Stevens but I may have to end up dating someone who had like Clay's dark color red...which is just fine....any type of redhead is ok in the end!!!!

yeah, well the guy that im friends with has like VERY red hair!

oh that's the kinda hair that I find so dreamy (sp?)

wow.

yea, they are no redheads in GA...anywho....hummm....I ran out of things to say!!!!

Are you just trying to get major posts while I am gone, so that I will like not beat you in posts, I was trying to get to 2000 before I left, but I didn't happen!

oh well your almost to 2000....right now I am just going with the flow and trying not to get to any number...but I was happy to get over the 2000 point...

I am not posting like I was and I see clayfan101 has passed me and that is ok

Yeah, I haven't been trying very hard lately, I just post when I feel like I could write something senseible, I dunno!

that's wat i usually do (except when claysgurl is trying to reach a goal or sumthin)

yea, I stopped trying to reach goals.......my brother thinks I am nuts for how many post I have!!!!

Yeah, I don't really have that many if you ask me!

yea I have a lot....but anywho....I am off to listen to the top 40...I'm more then likly will not be back till Monday...so see ya'all then and I added on to the story....

it's not like how it used to be though... to try to get sooo many posts.... if you have something to post, then post it, but if not... then don't. i guess it doesnt matter how many u have but more of if you say what you want.

yea, i only post when I have something to say and once school comes back I am only going to be posting like once a week, if that. Just to say hey and see what's new?....Just because I am going to be busy between my three classes, and then my other school/working at the pre-school there....and HOMEWORK (i hate that word)....