| If Gil and Larissa had a good time pounding on Brian, I agree they deserve eachother. I am constantly amazed by people. The artsy Larissa is concerned about chemistry, but as soon as some develops off she goes. I guess the potential bad boy that only she thinks she can change is just too intoxicating. The idea of physical risk taking and constantly proving himself for her can't be ignored. He projects strength. But does he? Who was strong and secure enough to demonstrate his true feelings? Not Gil. As far as I understand a good relationship is based on feelings. If she proceeds with Gil this will become apparent. Strength is not just physical, anyone can build their body. Concuring personal demons, fears and boldly going into uncharted territory takes guts. Brian went there. All Gil did was rely on his looks, a safe bet for him since every girl since age 10 has had the hots for him. Where was the courage there? Then when her past sneaks up he runs? Yeah there's a strong guy! I'd bet larissa has had it easy dating wise. You know Gil sure as hell has. Brian on the other hand I'd bet has struggled. You can tell that by his deamenor. There is compasion and humility there. That only comes from struggle. Those other 2 sure don't exude that. This is coming full circle, humility and compassion are key ingredients in a successful relationship, we all know who she should have picked. Maybe she will learn some of that humility and compasion I talked about once Gil kicks her to the curb. | |
