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Common Myths About the History of Abortion in America

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Posted by: chelktty

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MYTH : In 1973, the Supreme Court's Roe v. Wade decision made abortion legal for the first time in American history.

FACT : Abortion has been performed for thousands of years, and in every society that has been studied. It was legal in the United States from the time the earliest settlers arrived on our shores until the mid- to late 1800's, when states began passing laws that made it illegal. Although a few states had liberalized their abortion laws in the late 1960s and early 1970s, the right to have an abortion was finally made available to all American women when the Supreme Court ruling in 1973 struck down the remaining restrictive state laws.


MYTH : The founding fathers never intended for abortion to be allowed in the United States.

FACT : At the time the Constitution was adopted, abortions before "quickening" (the stage of pregnancy when the mother can feel fetal movement in the womb) were openly advertised and commonly performed. Abortion was something that the founding fathers would have been aware of, and presumably, they would not have remained silent about it if they had intended for the government to involve itself in this aspect of the private lives of its citizens.

MYTH : In the 1800's, abortion was outlawed because it was so dangerous.

FACT : During this time in history, all surgical procedures, including abortion, were extremely risky. Hospitals were not common, antiseptics were unknown, and even the most respected doctors had only primitive medical educations. Without the technology that we take for granted today, maternal and infant mortality rates during childbirth were extraordinarily high. The dangers from abortion were similar to the dangers from other surgeries that were not outlawed.

As scientific methods began to dominate medical practice, and technologies were developed to prevent infection, medical care on the whole became much safer and more effective. But by this time, the vast majority of women who needed abortions had no choice but to get them from illegal practitioners without these medical advances at their disposal. The "back-alley" abortion remained a dangerous, often deadly procedure, while areas of legally sanctioned medicine improved dramatically.

MYTH : Abortion was outlawed because it is immoral.

FACT : The motivations for anti-abortion laws varied from state to state, and included fears that soon the population would be dominated by the children of newly arriving immigrants, whose birth rates were higher than those of "native" Anglo-Saxon women. But the strongest force behind the drive to criminalize abortion was the attempt by doctors to establish for themselves exclusive rights to practice medicine. They wanted to prevent "untrained" practitioners, including midwives, apothecaries, and homeopaths, from competing with them for patients and for patient fees.

The best way to accomplish their goal was to eliminate one of the principle procedures that kept these competitors in business. Rather than openly admitting to such motivations, the newly formed American Medical Association (AMA) argued that abortion was both immoral and dangerous. This campaign was successful, and by 1910, all but one state had criminalized abortion except where necessary, in a doctor's judgment, to save the woman's life. In this way, legal abortion was successfully transformed into a "physicians-only" practice.

The prohibition of legal abortion from the 1880s until 1973 came under the same anti-obscenity or Comstock laws that prohibited the dissemination of birth control information and services. It is noteworthy that obscenity, abortion, and contraception should be so linked at a time when society deemed women incapable of making legally and socially responsible decisions and the law classified any attempts of women to make reproductive choices as unacceptable.

MYTH : During the period when abortion was illegal, abortion was effectively outlawed and the safety of pregnant women was ensured.

FACT : Criminalization of abortions did not reduce the numbers of women who sought abortions. In the years before Roe v. Wade, the estimates of illegal abortions ranged as high as 1.2 million per year1, although, of course, no accurate records could be kept of illegal procedures. What is known is that between the 1880s and 1973, many thousands of women died or suffered serious medical problems after attempting to self-induce their abortions or going to untrained practitioners who performed abortions with primitive methods or in unsanitary conditions. During this time, hospital emergency room staff treated thousands of women who either died or were suffering terrible effects of abortions provided without adequate skill and care.

It should be noted that during this time some women obtained relatively safer, although still illegal, abortions from private doctors.

This practice remained prevalent for the first half of the twentieth century. Later, the rate of reported abortions began to decline, partly because doctors faced increased scrutiny from their peers and hospital administrators concerned about the legality of their operations.

Today, pro-choice advocates who fight for continued access to safe, legal abortion for all women often are motivated by their understanding of the consequences of criminalized abortion. We know from history that whenever abortion has been illegal, women have still attempted and succeeded in ending unwanted pregnancies. Unfortunately, they have often suffered serious health problems or died in the process. While the 1973 Roe v. Wade decision was an important turning point in protecting women from unsafe abortion, an understanding of the pre-Roe v. Wade years is critical for making intelligent public policy decisions regarding reproductive health care in the future.

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Posted by: Dekka00

MYTH: Women have the right to choose what to do with their own body. If they don't want to be pregnant, they should be allowed to get an abortion.

FACT: Women have the right to choose what to do with their own body. If they don't want to be pregnant, they shouldn't have sex.

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Posted by: chelktty

MYTH : Women who don't wish to be pregnant should not have sex.

FACT : Women, including teenage girls, while knowing the risks involved with being sexually active, continue to do so anyway. Often this results in sexually transmitted disease and unwanted pregnancies. Should the right to have a legal abortion be taken away from these women, they will find a way to terminate their pregnancy with other means, including but not limited to: Back alley abortions - done by inexperienced practitioners that results in severe infection and often death of the woman. Drug Overdose - not always causing the abortion of the fetus, often causing birth defects, hospitalization of the woman and death.

You can argue that women shouldn't have sex if they don't want to get pregnant, hence abortion should be illegal and so should premarital sex. But isn't that kind of like limiting the rights for women to make choices about their personal lives? Why don't we just return to the days when women didn't have the right to vote. How about taking a few steps BACK in the evolution of society instead of forward?

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Posted by: Dekka00

people can have premarital sex if they want. But if they get pregnant, I don't want to hear anybody complaining.

a fetus has different DNA, and therefore is not part of a woman's body.

should it be illegal? I don't know. It's really more practical to have it be legal, but I only say this because I believe the law should not venture into morality. I don't know if I'd call it murder, but it's certainly immoral (excluding cases of rape or the mother's life being in danger). But making it illegal is not taking away a woman's right to choose. God forbid people be responsible for their actions.

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Posted by: chelktty

quote:
Dekka00 said this in post #4 :
people can have premarital sex if they want. But if they get pregnant, I don't want to hear anybody complaining.

a fetus has different DNA, and therefore is not part of a woman's body.

should it be illegal? I don't know. It's really more practical to have it be legal, but I only say this because I believe the law should not venture into morality. I don't know if I'd call it murder, but it's certainly immoral (excluding cases of rape or the mother's life being in danger). But making it illegal is not taking away a woman's right to choose. God forbid people be responsible for their actions.


I like that last line. I respect that argument.

However I do disagree that making it illegal doesn't take away a woman's right to choose. Women should be able to have an abortion in a safe environment. It shouldn't be up to the government or any one else to prohibit them from doing so.
It is a private and personal matter that shouldn't be left in the hands of politicians who are more concerned with their polls than with a woman's health.
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Posted by: Dekka00

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I like that last line. I respect that argument.

I appreciate that.

I can agree that it shouldn't be left in the hands of polititians.

But I can tell you I will never be getting an abortion...
hmm.....i suppose that's a given....
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Posted by: chelktty


Glad we can some to a peace about it, even if we don't agree!

It's a given because you're a male, right?

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Posted by: Dekka00

yeah

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Posted by: ryanvii

If the use of condoms was promoted in school, along with abstinence, it would severly limit pregnancy/abortion. It's not promoting sex, just realizing that abstinence doesn't work in all cases.

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Posted by: Dekka00

people've gotten pregnant even though they remained abstinent?

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Posted by: ryanvii

no, not all people remain abstinent. and for those people condoms are they way to go.

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Posted by: Marlene Newell

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chelktty said this in post #5 :


I like that last line. I respect that argument.

However I do disagree that making it illegal doesn't take away a woman's right to choose. Women should be able to have an abortion in a safe environment. It shouldn't be up to the government or any one else to prohibit them from doing so.
It is a private and personal matter that shouldn't be left in the hands of politicians who are more concerned with their polls than with a woman's health.



What about the baby's right to choose? What did he/she do wrong? What crime/sin did he/she commit? How did he/she exercise his/her freedom of choice?

Seems to me like abortion ALWAYS has an unwilling participant -- the baby.

Legalized abortions may have made it safer for the woman -- but it's as deadly as ever for the baby!

If a woman finds herself in a situation where she doesn't want to have the baby she is carrying, she can put the baby up for adoption.

If her life is in danger, then she can choose to take the risk or defend herself against her baby. But, short of that, in my opinion, she has NO RIGHT to end her baby's life.

MYTH: A woman has the right to do what she wants with her body.

FACT: It's not her body that's getting ripped out and ripped apart -- it's the baby's.
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Posted by: mystic

quote:
chelktty said this in post #5 :
It shouldn't be up to the government or any one else to prohibit them from doing so.


ABSOLUTELY....without a doubt!!!
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Posted by: mystic

quote:
Marlene Newell said this in post #12 :
Legalized abortions may have made it safer for the woman -- but it's as deadly as ever for the baby!


So what are they supposed to do? Revert back to backalley abortions?

Or raise them knowing they cant afford them?

Or give them up for adoption and have all these kids in foster care and in orphanages because no one can adopt them because they cant afford them also?

We would have messed up children all over the place because they have no stable homes...

Its hard enough and expensive enough to raise kids much less bring ones into the world that you didnt want in the first place.

men run out on pregnant woman everyday and wont support them...

But we are supposed to let a government decide what to do with our own bodies? I dont think so!!!!!!
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Posted by: Ken NJ

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mystic said this in post #14 :
<<< So what are they supposed to do? Revert back to backalley abortions? >>>

No, bring them up and allow them to live. In foster care, in orphans, in adoption homes. Why kill babies for want of convenience?

<<< Or raise them knowing they cant afford them? >>>

Then let someone with means and love who would be their surrogate parents. The kids deserve a life, if the parents can't afford it or find it in their heart to share it with them.

<<< Or give them up for adoption and have all these kids in foster care and in orphanages because no one can adopt them because they cant afford them also? >>>

Show me where all these kids in transient homes are NEVER adopted at some time in their life? Perhaps they go from home to home until finding a good match. At least they're still alive and have A CHANCE of living. Your absolute solution is irreversible.

<<< We would have messed up children all over the place because they have no stable homes... >>>

The messed up children and no stable homes could be simply because of undesirable characteristics, like physical and mental disabilities, color and race perhaps. There are more from certain groups and the imbalance isn't the fault of the children, but irresponsible parents. Perhaps more charitable organizations could be the temporary solution to raise them until of legal age. Then they can become productive citizens once grown and find a mate who will love them, despite loss of childhood love.

<<< Its hard enough and expensive enough to raise kids much less bring ones into the world that you didnt want in the first place. >>>

Kids in Romania, Korea and China have great adoption programs for unwanted births. These programs save lives, not kill them.

<<< men run out on pregnant woman everyday and wont support them...>>>

Then hold the men equally accountable. Make them care for the child for nine months afterward if mom doesn't want to. If neither, then to some adoption agency or foster care.

<<< But we are supposed to let a government decide what to do with our own bodies? I dont think so!!!!!! >>>

The government must protect everyone equally. Only as to where a crime is involved or where to save a life while being disputed as to what is right and wrong. There is no protection for the unborn nor their voices heard.
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Posted by: Ken NJ

<<<What about the baby's right to choose? What did he/she do wrong? What crime/sin did he/she commit? How did he/she exercise his/her freedom of choice? Seems to me like abortion ALWAYS has an unwilling participant -- the baby. >>>

Very accurate Marlene. Some accidental babies grow up perfectly once given a home and love. They're the society's jewels lost inside of the emotional turmoil.

<<< Legalized abortions may have made it safer for the woman -- but it's as deadly as ever for the baby! >>>

Forever lost, another life. We spend so much resources protecting all the living. The question for an intelligent society is: What about those who are alived, but unable to step up to help themselves (handicapped by several months only.)

<<< If a woman finds herself in a situation where she doesn't want to have the baby she is carrying, she can put the baby up for adoption. >>>

Totally agreed, but we can't understand why those who became involved wouldn't face up to the responsibility of at least caring for own flesh and blood yearning to come alive.

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Posted by: Ken NJ

<<< You can argue that women shouldn't have sex if they don't want to get pregnant, hence abortion should be illegal and so should premarital sex. But isn't that kind of like limiting the rights for women to make choices about their personal lives? >>>

No one wants to limit women's right. She is entitle to pursuit of happiness. There are responsibilities for people's actions. Of course, we can argue down two paths; those consensual and the parental accountability thereafter AND those by rape and the possible options. It can take days for ensuing discussions.

In both, perhaps some sense of shared responsibilities despite the mishaps for unplanned parenthood. Where would you like to take this discussion?

<<< Why don't we just return to the days when women didn't have the right to vote. How about taking a few steps BACK in the evolution of society instead of forward? >>>

NOT backwards; but more progressive thinking and options for both the parents and the unwanted child. We live in a rather advanced society. There are many good thinkers who can come up with good solutions to make it a win-win situation. Perhaps, give a little and get lots more back later to know that the unwanted can and did grown up to be a wonderful and productive person. Think about the possibilities, not the current disabilities.

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Posted by: Ken NJ

How come no one ever said this? Am I the only one that looks outside of the box? There are laws on the books which can be brought to court for clarification.

quote:
Dekka00 said this in post #4 :
people can have premarital sex if they want. But if they get pregnant, I don't want to hear anybody complaining. a fetus has different DNA, and therefore is not part of a woman's body.

should it be illegal? I don't know.
Isn't this simply favoring seniority. Those older have more rights than those much younger? Think about it. The bias is kill them because they can't stand up for themselves.
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Posted by: Dekka00

The bottom line is that even if abortion is made illegal, women still have the right to choose what to do with their bodies. Remember health class? Remember "the talk" with your parents? HAVING SEX IS FOR MAKING BABIES.

So if women do not want to have the baby, they shouldn't have sex. If they are having sex, they are taking a risk. If the birth control fails, they are going to be carrying a baby for 9 months. Women's choice of what they want to do with their bodies comes before the pregnancy.

I mean, I don't go around killing IRS employees because I don't think I should have to pay taxes.

Although somtimes I'd really like to.......

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Posted by: ryanvii

[QUOTE]Dekka00 said this in post #19 :
HAVING SEX IS FOR MAKING BABIES.QUOTE]

Give me a break. People have sex because it feels good. Theory and practice are two different things.


Also, it seems that most people against abortion are in favor of the death penalty. Why the double standard?

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Posted by: Dekka00

quote:
Give me a break. People have sex because it feels good. Theory and practice are two different things.


I meant from a biological standpoint. The point is that everyone knows that sex leads to pregnancy, so if they really don't want to get pregnant, they shouldn't be having sex.

quote:
Also, it seems that most people against abortion are in favor of the death penalty. Why the double standard?


How would you recommend we punish cold-blooded killers?
The last time I checked fetuses haven't killed anybody.
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Posted by: ryanvii

quote:
Dekka00 said this in post #21 :

How would you recommend we punish cold-blooded killers?
The last time I checked fetuses haven't killed anybody. [/B]


I recommend we punish killers, by sending them to prison for life. Not sinking to their level.

As for abortion and capital punishment, the argument is for the value of life. A value held deeply for unborn fetus, but not a human being.
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Posted by: mystic

Show me where all these kids in transient homes are NEVER adopted at some time in their life?

Are you for real??? Puhlease


And in case you werent aware...do you know how many kids in Romania get thrown out on the street after they turn eight and no one has adopted them? I know how many...ALL of them...

Have you EVERY seen inside a Russian orphange? Chinese orphange? Dont even go there...

These kids have NO homes whatsoever...and there ARE plenty of children in foster care and in places where people dont want them here...homeless kids all over the place...

Of all people Ken, Id never assume you blind to the reality.

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Posted by: mystic

Here Ken...here is Africa....

The need for help for the orphans and street children in Africa is profound. Tribal wars, extreme poverty, virtually no medical care, and the AIDS virus have killed off countless hundreds-of-thousands of people, and continue to do so at rapidly increasing numbers. Orphaned and abandoned children are everywhere. They are sick with various diseases (many infected with HIV), alone, hungry, sometimes naked or nearly so, dirty, living in alleys or dumps, scrounging for anything they can put in their stomachs, many continually sniff stolen glue (which is destroying their brains) to ease the pain, the younger ones fall prey to the violence of the older ones…they are in every “earthly” respect without hope.

The Ukraine

Now,103,000 children live in orphanages, and It is estimated in a recent Christian Scientist Monitor article [April 2002] that over 800,000 children are homeless in Ukraine today. Many make their home in the subway system in Kiev & other major cities. Too many kids for the orphanages to even handle.

And others


There are an estimated 150 million children who call the streets of the world home. (UNICEF, 1998)

· The most commonly used number for homeless children in the USA is 450,000(1991). Statistics reach up to 500,000 - 750,000. (National Coalition for the Homeless, 1990)

· 40,000 children under 5 years old die daily. (14 million annually) (UNICEF, 1991)

70,000 - 75,000 children in Manila live on the streets. About 30% of the boys and girls as young as 8 years old work as prostitutes. (Relin, 1991)

· 800,000 girls 12-16 years old are prostitutes in Thailand. Parents sell children into bondage. (UNICEF, 91)

· 1.3 minion crippled children beg for employers in Bombay

62% of the girls on Brazilian streets will either commit suicide or be murdered before they are 18. (Switz.)

· An estimated 260,000 children were left after Cheausescu's government toppled in Romania. Half of these abandoned children were sent to a 77 bed shelter, the remainder were labeled as handicapped and placed in "death houses". (World Press Review, 1991)

· 10,000 children, primarily boys, live at St. Petersburg airport, formally Russia. Militia round them up and place them in prison, institutes or return them home. Yearly 3,000 runaway. (World Press Review, 1992)

· The 20,000 - 30,000 children living on the streets of Moscow are viewed as "genetically inferior," subhuman, dispensable. (National Catholic Reporter, 1993)

· In Bogota Columbia missionaries with Action International have 50,000 children living on the streets of that city to care for.

· Mexico City has 1,900,000 kids on the streets, 240,000 of them are abandoned. (Action International, 1996)

· In one year Guatemalan police have publicly executed up to 40 street children and injured hundreds more. The government admits to only 5,000 street children in Guatemala City. (Relin, 1991)

· Brazil may house the most abandoned children in the world, their numbers range from 12 to 24 million

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Posted by: mystic

By 2000 AD, there will be 1,000,000 orphans in South Africa due to AIDS, 65-70% will turn to crime & prostitution. (Children's Ministries Convention, 1996)

· There are 1,000,000 orphans in Uganda (Wayfarers Ministries, 1/96)

· In Zambia 600,000 children will be orphaned by the year 2000 as a result of AIDS (Action Intl., 6/96)

· 400,000 African children carry HIV. An estimated 2.5 million will die of AIDS & 5 million more will become AIDS orphans by 2000 AD. (Operation World)

In the 60's & 70's the number of homeless children remained constant. For example, NYC had 1400 homeless children. Then in the 80's the population began to grow: in 1984 there were 7000; 1987 12,303; and 1991 20,000 kids were homeless in NYC. (Zuckerman, 1988 &N.C. for the Homeless, 1991)

· Wherever you look there are children. Their names: orphan, abused & unloved, abandoned, polluted, castoffs, just another mouth to feed, unwanted burden, unexpected accident, headache, added expense, nuisance, good-for-nothing, trash, thief, disposable ones, vermin, garbage... today the picture, isn't pretty.

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Posted by: Marlene Newell

quote:
ryanvii said this in post #20 :
[QUOTE]Dekka00 said this in post #19 :
HAVING SEX IS FOR MAKING BABIES.QUOTE]

Give me a break. People have sex because it feels good. Theory and practice are two different things.


Also, it seems that most people against abortion are in favor of the death penalty. Why the double standard?


Very simple. A person that receives the death penalty has been convicted of a heinous crime -- murder with aggravating circumstances, usually multiple murders.

A baby is innocent life.

If you can equate the two, then you are saying that unborn children are guilty of heinous crimes. What crime? What is their crime? Tell me. Whom did they murder? Did they ask to be conceived? No. Did they ask for the parents they got? No.

It is really a sick, sick, sick comparison to make, to say that an unborn child is the equivalent of a murderer.
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Posted by: chelktty

Mystic ,

Thank you for presenting those facts about orphans, I was just about to look up that information and share it, along with the fact that without legalized abortion, those numbers of orphaned and homeless children would only increase.

Yes it's a nice concept, that if a woman is pregnant and doesn't want it, she should give it up for adoption. But so rarely does a white family from the suburbs want to adopt a black baby. Nor does a black family from the suburbs want to adopt a white baby. Eventually they grow older in the system until they're small children. And people would much rather adopt a baby than a small child. And forget crack babies or babies with other major health concerns. Who's going to adopt them? Marlene? It's a nice concept but unfortunately unrealistic.


And again we're talking early trimester, not late stage abortion. Meaning it is a fetus, not viable to survive on it's own, therefore NOT a baby.
Marlene, Ken, do you guys eat eggs?

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Posted by: mystic

chelktty said this in post #27 :
[B]Yes it's a nice concept, that if a woman is pregnant and doesn't want it, she should give it up for adoption. But so rarely does a white family from the suburbs want to adopt a black baby. Nor does a black family from the suburbs want to adopt a white baby. Eventually they grow older in the system until they're small children. And people would much rather adopt a baby than a small child. And forget crack babies or babies with other major health concerns. Who's going to adopt them? Marlene? It's a nice concept but unfortunately unrealistic.


I couldnt agree more!!! With all the kids that still need homes, what would the point be of adding more numbers to the already high tally there already is...

I opened up a thread in the gold forum about this same thing..and said EXACTLY what you did...its a nice thought, but definitely unrealistic....we cant even house and feed the homeless kids there are now..what are we to do with even more?

Marlene, Ken, do you guys eat eggs?

Ummm.....ROFTL!

Maybe this wasnt meant to be funny...but I couldnt help it...

BUT....The mere question brings forth a very good point!!

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Posted by: Dekka00

well, I have this thing against looking at people in terms of numbers.

but, whatever... that's just me.

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Posted by: chelktty

quote:
mystic said this in post #28 :

Marlene, Ken, do you guys eat eggs?

Ummm.....ROFTL!

Maybe this wasnt meant to be funny...but I couldnt help it...

BUT....The mere question brings forth a very good point!!
[/B]


Yes it was totally meant in a humorous way! Glad you caught that LOL!
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Posted by: mystic

quote:
Dekka00 said this in post #29 :
well, I have this thing against looking at people in terms of numbers.

but, whatever... that's just me.


I completely understand and somewhat agree with you Dekka...however....to NOT look at the number of already abandoned and homeless children we have already...is turning your head to the reality of this horrid situation.

So...let me ask you...IF abortion was to become illegal...what do you suppose we do with the millions of other children that are added to the number of homeless children we already have?

Im not making light of the situation by saying abortion is right or wrong in a pure sense....but what Im saying is that we have in this world SO many children who dont have homes, and you think its okay to not kill an egg before, but you think its okay to let children suffer and starve while they are here?

What do you propose we do with all these unwanted children? Sure its really easy to say put them up for adoption....but look how many kids are not adopted as it is....

So...give us another perspective on what you would propose we do with all of these children besides adoption, which you can see doesnt work.

ALSO...not to mention that adoption is VERY expensive and ranges from 5,000-10,000 dollars in the states, and 15,000 - 30,000 dollars overseas.

Foster care? I wouldnt touch that one...we already know there arent enough foster care facilities to house all these children...people arent willing to open their homes to them...are you? And even when they do...the state keeps them moving around from one home to another...so much so that the children can never truly feel comfort in knowing they have an actual home.

Sorry....You HAVE to look at it in numbers...if you dont, then you are ignoring the reality of the terrible lives of some of these children who are already born and unwanted.
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Posted by: ryanvii

quote:
Marlene Newell said this in post #26 :


If you can equate the two, then you are saying that unborn children are guilty of heinous crimes.

It is really a sick, sick, sick comparison to make, to say that an unborn child is the equivalent of a murderer.


It's a fair comparison. A life = a life. I'm not saying that an unborn child is guilty of heinous crimes. You are putting words in my mouth.

If you value life so much, why are you willing to take it? Life in prison is punishment enough, allowing the person to realize the wrong they have done.
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Posted by: chelktty

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mystic said this in post #31 :
Foster care? I wouldnt touch that one...we already know there arent enough foster care facilities to house all these children...people arent willing to open their homes to them...are you? And even when they do...the state keeps them moving around from one home to another...so much so that the children can never truly feel comfort in knowing they have an actual home.



Excellent point Mystic! About everything you wrote! I thought I'd pull up some information about foster children and the crisis they face today:
from:
http://www.childrensrights.org/Lega...opic_marcia.htm

* Over one in ten foster children in New Jersey are abused and neglected in foster care;
* Foster children supervised by the Adoption Resource Centers were over three times more likely to be abused and neglected in their foster homes than other foster children;
* 20% of foster children had ping-ponged back into foster care at least once from a failed reunification or adoption; and
* Many caseworkers carry caseloads well over 80 children, when the national standard calls for a caseload of 15 to 17 children (12 children for adoption workers).


The fact of the matter is that if abortion is made illegal, not only will it endanger the lives of millions of women, it will create a further burden on a system that is already incapable of handling the current number of foster children.
If the idea of abortion goes against your moral fiber than don't have one. But don't tell women what they can or cannot do with their bodies. The truth of the matter is it's really none of your business.

Also I'm interested to know what some of you who are prolife think about stem cell research?
Stem cell research has advanced the medical field in regard to it's continuous search for a cure to disease. Stem cells that can help advance the search for a cancer cure that can be extracted from aborted embryos. Yet fundamentalist religious groups don't want it because it's the product of an abortion. Let me ask you, if those stem cells save the life of a person dying from disease, does it cancel out the abortion?
If it advances medical technology and women are doing it anyway, what's the problem with testing and researching it?
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Posted by: defensive

I dont think any of us has the right to judge. and mystic brings us EXCELLENT points. so many children are already suffering in a state of homelessness or being shuffled around from foster home to foster home to foster home leaving them abandoned from any feeling remotely close to stability.

ken and marlene and the few others here opposing it: do you know anyone who has had an abortion? do you know what emotional trauma they go through while making this decision? do you know how much time they spend evaluating their situation to make sure they are doing what they feel to be right? do you know how much guilt they suffer afterwards?? granted, some women use abortion as a means of birth control, and that is wrong but i think most women have made a mistake and they are preventing themselves from making another......... being a parent when they arent ready.
aside from anything else, i cannot believe that a 2 month fetus can feel pain and suffer, im certain that the woman is experiencing a hell of a lot more pain than that tiny being that has not yet begun to really form.

and for a country who is becoming so politically correct on everything else to the point it makes me SICK, i think the politically correct thing to do is leave the choice up to the woman, where she can go to a licensed doctor who knows how to properly perform an abortion, and keep this practice as safe as possible.

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Posted by: defensive

and someone said earlier that abortion is only okay in cases of rape or when the mother is in danger.

that totally damages your entire argument. abortion is abortion. just because that mother was raped, did that baby do anything wrong??? either you think abortion is right or wrong. is it okay if the woman was practicing safe sex and the condom broke?? is it okay if the woman was on birth control pills and she fell into the 1% who get pregnant on the pill?? they were being responsible to protect against pregnancy.......... c'mon people. a woman has a right to choose.

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Posted by: chelktty


Defensive you're absolutely right. The fate of a woman and her unwanted pregnancy shouldn't be up to a group of people to decide, but rather to that woman to decide whether she wants to have the child and keep it, give it up for adoption, or have an abortion.
Just like it should not be up to a group of people if a terminally ill person chooses to die with dignity rather than suffer in pain during their last days.
Personal and private decisions regarding one's own medical situation be it pregnancy or disease, should not be left in the hands of those who want to ban such practices on the basis that they're "immoral". As I said before, if you personally don't agree with the decision, that's your perogative...don't do it. But don't tell someone you don't even know what they can or cannot do with their bodies.

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Posted by: Dekka00

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defensive said this in post #35 :
and someone said earlier that abortion is only okay in cases of rape or when the mother is in danger.

that totally damages your entire argument. abortion is abortion. just because that mother was raped, did that baby do anything wrong??? either you think abortion is right or wrong. is it okay if the woman was practicing safe sex and the condom broke?? is it okay if the woman was on birth control pills and she fell into the 1% who get pregnant on the pill?? they were being responsible to protect against pregnancy.......... c'mon people. a woman has a right to choose.


NO NO NO NO NO NO NO
The only safe sex is no sex. Beyond that, you're taking a risk. They were not being responsible. All these birth control methods have the possiblility of failure. Abstinence works 100% of the time.
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Posted by: chelktty

quote:
Dekka00 said this in post #37 :

NO NO NO NO NO NO NO
The only safe sex is no sex. Beyond that, you're taking a risk. They were not being responsible. All these birth control methods have the possiblility of failure. Abstinence works 100% of the time.


True Dekka, absitnence works 100% of the time, but how is society supposed to enforce that? You can't MAKE people abstain from sex just like you can't MAKE the decision for them regarding unwanted pregnancy.
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Posted by: Dekka00

it's not for society to enforce. it's for the individual to enforce on themselves.

if they can't control their urges and get pregnant because of it, I'm sorry, but tough. They're going to have to deal with it.

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Posted by: Dekka00

the purpose of law in society is to maintain order, so under that view, i guess abortion should be legal.

but it's still immoral.

it's not about a woman's "right to choose" though. If she's pregnant (unless it's rape), she already MADE her choice.

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Posted by: chelktty

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Dekka00 said this in post #39 :
it's not for society to enforce. it's for the individual to enforce on themselves.

if they can't control their urges and get pregnant because of it, I'm sorry, but tough. They're going to have to deal with it.


You're absolutely right, it's shouldn't be up to society to enforce. I think that's the point that Mystic, defensive and I have been trying to make.
Obviously if a woman finds herself with an unwanted pregnancy she would have to deal with it. Do you think that abortion is some kind of easy choice? I know you're not a woman and therefore have never been pregnant, but do you honestly believe that it is an easy decision for a woman to make? Of coarse a woman has to face the consequences. A woman always does, while men have the ability to run away or suggest the termination of the pregnancy, but never actually have to make that difficult decision.
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Posted by: Dekka00

well men have to pay child support if they run off. What if they wanted the woman to get an abortion but she didn't? should the man not have to pay child support?

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Posted by: chelktty

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Dekka00 said this in post #40 :
the purpose of law in society is to maintain order, so under that view, i guess abortion should be legal.


but it's still immoral.

If that is your opinion I suggest being very careful with future female encounters.

it's not about a woman's "right to choose" though. If she's pregnant (unless it's rape), she already MADE her choice.

You're contradicting your statement that it should be legal. It shouldn't be up to politicians or anyone else (including you) what a woman does with her body. It doesn't concern you directly therefore, none of your business.
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Posted by: Dekka00

it is up to a woman what she does with her body. If what she does with it gets her pregnant, then that was her choice. The fetus however, is not part of her body. It has different DNA. It depends on the woman's body for survival, yes. It's intimitaly connected to the woman's body, yes. That's part of being a mammal. But the fact is that it's not the woman's body.

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Posted by: defensive

FIRST OF ALL, men can get out of paying child support, TRUST ME. no matter how you try to enforce it. i have a son who has seen his biological father probably 10 times in his short 10 years. and that is being generous. and this man paid me child support for ONE STINKING YEAR!!!

DEKKA, you disagree that women who use condoms or birth controls pills are being responsible. what about married women?? if a married woman using the pill to avoid pregnancy with her husband gets pregnant, she has been irresponsible?? if you are going to have this moral debate - is there anything immoral about a married couple having sex, OH MY GOD, even for pleasure??? do you think that the only women getting abortions are young, careless, irresponsible party-goers??? go sit at an abortion clinic for a while, see the clientel that walks in there.

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Posted by: defensive

and that fetus is ABSOLUTELY part of her body. i have two kids, while i was carrying those babies, they were absolutely a part of me. they were connected to me, dependent upon me, and though their DNA is not exactly as mine, c'mon, we share DNA.

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Posted by: chelktty

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Dekka00 said this in post #42 :
well men have to pay child support if they run off. What if they wanted the woman to get an abortion but she didn't? should the man not have to pay child support?

"The fetus however, is not part of her body. It has different DNA. It depends on the woman's body for survival, yes. It's intimitaly connected to the woman's body, yes. That's part of being a mammal. But the fact is that it's not the woman's body."


Should a woman have a baby that the father didn't want, men have the option to sign off of all parental rights to a child, relieving himself of any financial burden. Of coarse this also means that the man has no rights to visit the child or even talk to them on the phone, because he has given up that right in signing away his parental responsibility.

As for the fetus not being a part of the woman's body, are you kidding?? Where is it then? On the coffee table? The night stand? The linen closet?
The embryo is not a fully formed and developed human being. This is not an organism that has thoughts, feelings or senses. It is a part of the woman's body. It is her responsibility, her choice.
Perhaps the wonderful fantasy that all unwanted pregnancies ended with adoption instead of abortion would be viable in a perfect world. But newsflash...it's not a perfect world.
Many unwanted children get passed around in the system, lost under the massive files of OTHER unwanted children, to bounce between orphanage to foster care and so on... Subjected to physical, emotional and sexual abuse and therefore breeding more degenerate minds into a society that is already overwhelmed with emotionally detached menaces.
Until Michael Jackson makes good on his promise to adopt thousands of children, the option for unwanted babies and kids remains slim and dim.

It's one thing to sit on a high horse and shake a finger screaming "It's IMMORAL! It's WRONG! It's MURDER!", only to turn around and NOT adopt unwanted kids and NOT volunteer at an orphanage and NOT contribute anything more to a solution than a judgemental opinion.
I know I sound like a broken record when I say this, but unless you've actually walked a mile in a person's shoes, you can't really offer an honest perspective of where they've been.
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Posted by: Dekka00

okay, all that is unarguable

however, don't use the phrase "right to choose." The choice comes before the pregnancy. I can't tell people not to have sex, but I can tell them that if they can avoid an unwanted pregnancy by not having sex.

I don't care. Actions have consequences. It's simple cause and effect.

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Posted by: defensive

[QUOTE]chelktty said this in post #47 :
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Should a woman have a baby that the father didn't want, men have the option to sign off of all parental rights to a child, relieving himself of any financial burden. Of coarse this also means that the man has no rights to visit the child or even talk to them on the phone, because he has given up that right in signing away his parental responsibility.


that???[COLOR=darkblue]and the fathers should no longer have a choice either then, to those who oppose abortion, how can you argue this???? if a woman is FORCED by the government to continue her preganancy if she wants to terminate, then the government should FORCE all the dead beat, piece of **** dads that dont take care of their responsibility. where is the equality in that


i do see understand your argument dekka. but i think that as long as it is not being used as a form of birth control its okay.

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Posted by: Dekka00

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and then should no longer be a choice either then, to those who oppose abortion, how can you argue this???? if a woman is FORCED by the government to continue her preganancy if she wants to terminate, then the government should FORCE all the dead beat, piece of **** dads that dont take care of their responsibility. where is the equality in that???


they do. My dad was in jail for 9 months for not paying child support.

and you know what? He deserved it.
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Posted by: defensive

i dont know, i tried to edit that post, and its all messed up. im glad you could even make sense of it dekka!!!

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Posted by: chelktty

quote:
Dekka00 said this in post #50 :


they do. My dad was in jail for 9 months for not paying child support.

and you know what? He deserved it.


I'm sorry your dad went to jail Dekka, but I hope he learned his lesson. If you want an active role in your child's life, you have to step up and take responsibility.
Off topic but similar to the child support issue...if a woman denies visitation to the father for months, shouldn't she go to jail too? If he's paying child support?
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Posted by: mystic

quote:
Dekka00 said this in post #37 :


NO NO NO NO NO NO NO
The only safe sex is no sex. Beyond that, you're taking a risk. They were not being responsible. All these birth control methods have the possiblility of failure. Abstinence works 100% of the time.


But abstinence isnt realistic.
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Posted by: mystic

quote:
Dekka00 said this in post #44 :
it is up to a woman what she does with her body. If what she does with it gets her pregnant, then that was her choice. The fetus however, is not part of her body. It has different DNA. It depends on the woman's body for survival, yes. It's intimitaly connected to the woman's body, yes. That's part of being a mammal. But the fact is that it's not the woman's body.


I thought I already explained that babies do not have totally different DNA than their parents...if that was the case, you would look nothing like your mother or father....

Each child gets half of the mother and half of the father, and then one strand takes on half mother, and the other strand takes on half the mother and father....

With four strands...that is one from the mother, one from the father, and two that are half and half....

How is it that they have different DNA??...its all about dominant and recessive genes...but they get those from the parents...who get those from their parents and so on and so on...

Biology 101.
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Posted by: Dekka00

ummm yeah I know that I share half my genes with my mother and half with my father, but it's not the same DNA. That wasn't even the point. The fetus is an organism with different DNA than its mother.

I suppose if you wanted to argue that until it reaches a certain age it is still part of its mother, there is no way I could argue with that, but I'd still disagree.

But I have the same DNA now that I had when I was a small fetus, and I'm not a part of my mother's body.

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Posted by: chelktty

But you're comparing a fetus/embryo to a human being. They're not the same.

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Posted by: Dekka00

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chelktty said this in post #56 :
But you're comparing a fetus/embryo to a human being. They're not the same.


that's an unresolvable matter of opinion.
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Posted by: chelktty

quote:
Dekka00 said this in post #57 :


that's an unresolvable matter of opinion.

Can't argue with that!

What I mean is, it's not a viable embryo. Meaning it cannot survive or even develope on its own. It hasn't developed brain matter or even tissue really. In the first weeks it's simply cells splitting.
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Posted by: mystic

quote:
Dekka00 said this in post #55 :
but it's not the same DNA.


You are speaking that technically?

Well...okay...but still you get your gene code from your parents...so technically you do get your DNA from them....without your parents you wouldnt exist.
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Posted by: defensive

Dekka, you are right that people should take responsibility for their actions. i agree with you 100% on that. However, accidents happen. As i stated before, even married couples who are practicing safe sex to avoid pregnancy can come up pregnant. and i dont think its fair to say that married couples shouldnt be having sex. but, my point, if its not the right time for them to have children, abortion may be the best option for them. i believe that as long as it is done within the first trimester, its okay. and i know that sounds kind of contradictory too, but after that, a baby is actually forming, with fingers and toes, etc etc. but still, the government does not have a right to make that decision for a woman.

its not a matter of DNA, its not a moral matter, its not a matter of congressional magnitude, it is a matter of choice for every woman. and i know that i see women all the time with 5 or 6 kids that she cant afford, not taking care of them, dirty clothes, screaming and beating them, and i have to think inside that perhaps abortion should have been an option for her. that may sound cruel, but its reality. we dont live in a perfect world, unfortunately, therefore things like abortion need to exist.

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Posted by: Marlene Newell

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defensive said this in post #60 :
Dekka, you are right that people should take responsibility for their actions. i agree with you 100% on that. However, accidents happen. As i stated before, even married couples who are practicing safe sex to avoid pregnancy can come up pregnant. and i dont think its fair to say that married couples shouldnt be having sex. but, my point, if its not the right time for them to have children, abortion may be the best option for them. i believe that as long as it is done within the first trimester, its okay. and i know that sounds kind of contradictory too, but after that, a baby is actually forming, with fingers and toes, etc etc. but still, the government does not have a right to make that decision for a woman.

its not a matter of DNA, its not a moral matter, its not a matter of congressional magnitude, it is a matter of choice for every woman. and i know that i see women all the time with 5 or 6 kids that she cant afford, not taking care of them, dirty clothes, screaming and beating them, and i have to think inside that perhaps abortion should have been an option for her. that may sound cruel, but its reality. we dont live in a perfect world, unfortunately, therefore things like abortion need to exist.


Aren't you lucky your parents didn't have a reason to abort you?
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Posted by: chelktty

quote:
Marlene Newell said this in post #61 :


Aren't you lucky your parents didn't have a reason to abort you?


Wow Marlene, nice comeback.
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Posted by: mystic

quote:
Marlene Newell said this in post #61 :


Aren't you lucky your parents didn't have a reason to abort you?


Maybe its just me...but I didnt find it all that humerous that you would say this.

I notice not one person has answered my ever wondering question of what would you propose we would do with all of these children that no one wants.

Im sure she is lucky that her family didnt abort her...of course I think its obvious that she wasnt left to fend for herself and had parents willing to raise her...as many other parents abandon theirs.

So...again...if abortion was to be illegal..what do you propose we do with the already unwanted children plus the extra million that are not wanted either?

Skirting the issue because you think it isnt realistic in your world doesnt mean the problem in the real world goes away....its real, and it exists....
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Posted by: Dekka00

let's keep abortion legal.

and put all the unwanted foster kids to sleep.

problem solved.

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Posted by: chelktty

quote:
Dekka00 said this in post #64 :
let's keep abortion legal.

and put all the unwanted foster kids to sleep.

problem solved.



Somehow I don't think that'll work Dekka. According to law, viable humans can't be put to sleep...it's illegal.
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Posted by: jrkiv

Chelky's right, viable humans cannot be put to sleep ... unless they're in the womb.

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Posted by: mystic

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jrkiv said this in post #66 :
Chelky's right, viable humans cannot be put to sleep ... unless they're in the womb.


Hi jrkiv! How are you?


Okay...why dont YOU tell us what we can do with the unwanted children that are already in the world....

So far we have a "no answer" and another comment that basically stated "I give up, I dont know what to do."

So...why dont you enlighten us and give it a shot.
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Posted by: mad_rhetorik

Regardless as to whether a person supports or opposes abortion...one thing is clear and can not be overlooked....LIFE begins at conception period...some call the products of conception...a simple group of cells and give them no more thought than a womans 28th day discharge....well, and ova is ALIVE...a sperm is ALIVE...so how can those two living things come together and all of a sudden produce an unliving thing?....so to view abortion as being ok because the cells arent viable is crap...ask yourself this...if they arent viable....why have an abortion????

We ALL started out as products of conception...we are fortunate....we were born....

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Posted by: mystic

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mad_rhetorik said this in post #68 :
one thing is clear and can not be overlooked....LIFE begins at conception period...


Well no actually its not clear....that is the whole basis for the pro and anti abortion movement.


So, well...now that we know where you stand....why dont YOU give the proposal a shot...

Why is it that NOT ONE person who feels this way wants to try and answer this question....

I love the skirting of the issue at hand....


Abortion as of right now is LEGAL!!! So...to those of you who feel it should be illegalized...tell us how you think we should handle...

1. All the millions of homeless and unwanted children in the world NOW.

2. All the homeless and unwanted children in the world IF abortion becomes ilegal.

3. How to prevent (not punish, but PREVENT) backalley abortions which we KNOW would happen...history tell us that it would happen.

Lets try again, shall we?
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Posted by: mystic

quote:
mad_rhetorik said this in post #68 :
if they arent viable....why have an abortion????


Can a 12 week old fetus survive out of the womb? Possibly...but not likely....therefore it is not viable...

Either I am confused over what you are trying to say by that statement...or you are confused over the definition of viable, which means capable of surviving...if a fetus cannot survive out of the womb...it is not considered viable....

Most miscarriages happen in the first three months...therefore, the first three months a child is not viable...ask any doctor or anyone familiar with the first three months....many women dont even say they are pregnant until the first three months are over for fear that they might "voodoo" themselves into a miscarriage....
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Posted by: chelktty

Mystic I'd love to add to that but I think you've made the point abundantly clear!
And I too think it's interesting that no one has answered your question about the homeless, abused and forgotten children of today. What's to become of them and hypothetically millions of others should abortion become a banned procedure.

mad_rhetorik, I understand that you feel passionately (as many do) about this issue. Like Mystic said, viable means capable of surviving outside the womb .
Which is why I don't believe in late stage abortion. I don't even think 2nd trimester abortion is right either. If the embryo has not developed into a fetus, I honestly don't believe it is yet a viable human.

Those of you who are anti abortion use the argument that it's murder. What do you think happens to the soul of the embryo? Does it have a soul yet? What then happens to the soul of a miscarriage? If a woman has an abortion it's murder. If a woman has a miscarriage is it neglect?

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Posted by: jrkiv

I've got an idea mystic, how about we kill them all!!!
The fact that you view these 'unwanted' children as having NO INHERENT WORTH WHATSOEVER is unsettling. Has the sanctity of life in america digressed to the point where a baby must be wanted to be human? Those children have a right to live for their own sake, not because they are wanted or unwanted by anybody. Those 'unwanted' children will some day be adults, should we dispose of those 'unwanted' adults? My best friend's dad grew up in foster homes, he is one of the coolest, funniest, most loving, and successful people i know - and you would have him aborted to reduce the number of "unwanted" children? Absolutely incredible.
As for the viability issue, fetusus can survive outside of the womb months before birth. But what does that matter? Are people who can't survive without respirators or pacemakers not human because they're not viable apart from aid? Of course not, but people will rationalize away the humanity of the unborn in that way. I'm not going to be drawn into this debate, all the players here are dug-in and in some cases hostile. All i did was write a one-sentence post and got singled out. All the best to everyone.

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Posted by: Dekka00

yeah we all are just going back and forth with the same arguments.

it all boils down to the question "when does humanity start?" and this can't be answered by anything other than beliefs. So it's actually kind of pointless to argue.

but if it ever comes down to a referendum(which it won't, but....), I know which way I'm voting.

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Posted by: chelktty

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jrkiv said this in post #72 :
I've got an idea mystic, how about we kill them all!!!
The fact that you view these 'unwanted' children as having NO INHERENT WORTH WHATSOEVER is unsettling. Has the sanctity of life in america digressed to the point where a baby must be wanted to be human?

You're missing the point entirely. The point was that there are already so many unwanted, abandoned and abused children in today's society. BANNING abortion would only create more. If you're willing to say "don't have abortions" then back up your convictions by adopting unwanted children! Open your home to a dozen or so foster kids. And NO WHERE did Mystic OR myself EVER write that an unwanted child who is a ward of the system is not human. What kind of crack are you smoking and WHY aren't you sharing?

Those children have a right to live for their own sake, not because they are wanted or unwanted by anybody. Those 'unwanted' children will some day be adults, should we dispose of those 'unwanted' adults? My best friend's dad grew up in foster homes, he is one of the coolest, funniest, most loving, and successful people i know - and you would have him aborted to reduce the number of "unwanted" children? Absolutely incredible.

I wouldn't have your friend's dad aborted, but I certainly wouldn't want his mother's decision about that to be MY responsibility. As far as disposing of adults, says who? An unformed fetus is not an adult. So what would your response be to a miscarriage? Is it or is it not an aborted pregnancy? If it's a rejection from the woman's body that's ok...but from a woman willfully it's not?

As for the viability issue, fetusus can survive outside of the womb months before birth.


You're absolutely right, months before the birth. I think most of us who are pro choice have made it clear that we believe partial birth abortion to be wrong. We're talking viable as in UNFORMED FETUS.


But what does that matter? Are people who can't survive without respirators or pacemakers not human because they're not viable apart from aid? Of course not, but people will rationalize away the humanity of the unborn in that way. I'm not going to be drawn into this debate, all the players here are dug-in and in some cases hostile. All i did was write a one-sentence post and got singled out. All the best to everyone.

Again you're missing the point entirely. You're talking about HUMAN BEINGS. We're talking about EMBRYOS.



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Dekka00 said this in post #73 :
yeah we all are just going back and forth with the same arguments.

it all boils down to the question "when does humanity start?" and this can't be answered by anything other than beliefs. So it's actually kind of pointless to argue.

but if it ever comes down to a referendum(which it won't, but....), I know which way I'm voting.

Dekka, though we sit on the opposite sides of the spectrum on this issue, I have to say that I respect your point of view. You're absolutely right, it all comes down to an individual's belief structure and when they believe humanity begins in regard to conception. Thanks for keeping your cool while some of us get out of hand over this.
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Posted by: Dekka00

*bows politely* it's been a pleasure bashing heads with you

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Posted by: chelktty

Ditto!

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